buffonsave Posted April 19, 2009 Posted April 19, 2009 before this happened we didn't talk much... long story short... day one..chick touches me when I say hi day 2: when I see her, she asks if I smoke and I say yes but I don't have but she gives me one...we meet at truck, talk she says a sexual innuendo (I say your not pushing it down my throat(the smoke) and she says she has a habit of people doing that around her) she mentions an excoworker thought I was ws really cute...asked questions about my age(made her guess, didn't tell her)do I like my job...she mentions her EX got her into country music..i do some teasing and she leaves day 3:when I see her she says she's hungry but when she's done she wants to go for a smoke...she doesn't come to the spot so I go to the store and see her coming from outside..i say what happened..she said she forgot and I said I'm starting not to trust you(jokingly)...she asks me for a smoke and I give it to her.we talk...i caress her hair because it was really windy and then she had to go back to work but she said to come by the store cause they are showing the soccer game...she said when SHE is available for smokes she will tell me when she can go(I think this is bad).she asked if I had facebook and I said yeah but didn't offer it and she asked for my last name, I told her and she said she liked it.. (she hasnt added me) next day... i told her today we are going to lunch(didnt ask)...i asked what time was better for you...100 or 130...she said 100.i got there at one and she didn't realize the time and said she was helping a friend proofreading his essay...she said 130 and I said ok and when I left she wanted me to give her a high five... im like wtf...i said I'm not giving you a five and I left. i didn't go back for 130 and didn't see her after... next day...she asked me what happened and I said I was busy.we talk, plan a meet when shes done work, i come 5 minutes late and shes gone. then last night I see her at a club...we say hi she mentions of another encounter we were supposed to meet but we didnt...small talk...i was with friends she was with friends and parted ways(kinda ackwardly but when she left she said ill see you inside).i seen her a couple of times later(I don't think she saw me) including hugging some guy at a club. I was with a lady friend and she said if she wanted to talk to you, she would try and look for you...what do you guys think?have i shown enough interest in her?
MN randomguy Posted April 19, 2009 Posted April 19, 2009 If you like her ask her out. She'll gt frustrated and move on if she has to keep flirting. She could just enjoy attention from you and be playing games. If you make that attention cost something emotionally, she won't do that.
Author buffonsave Posted April 19, 2009 Author Posted April 19, 2009 how do i make it cost emotionally?any other advice...thanks
Lucky_One Posted April 19, 2009 Posted April 19, 2009 next day... i told her today we are going to lunch(didnt ask)...i asked what time was better for you...100 or 130...she said 100.i got there at one and she didn't realize the time and said she was helping a friend proofreading his essay...she said 130 and I said ok and when I left she wanted me to give her a high five... im like wtf...i said I'm not giving you a five and I left. i didn't go back for 130 and didn't see her after... next day...she asked me what happened and I said I was busy.we talk, plan a meet when shes done work, i come 5 minutes late and shes gone. I think she liked you. I think you asked her on a date and then stood her up. And you were late to the next one. At this point, I don't either of you are into each other. Your feelings are hurt, her feelings are hurt, and unless one of you is gutsy enough to say "hey I think we got off to a rough start, let's start over", then this is a non-event.
Author buffonsave Posted April 19, 2009 Author Posted April 19, 2009 i didnt stood her up...i went 100 but she wanted to change it to 130, i agreed but i was busy with work after.we are both working, im a courier and she works in a department store...so its tough to get together because of our job duties.then i told her 400 meet(when shes done work) but i arrived 405 because of my job.i think she knows it when she mentioned we keep missing each other...im gonna try to take this out of the work atmosphere(we dont work together)
MN randomguy Posted April 19, 2009 Posted April 19, 2009 how do i make it cost emotionally?any other advice...thanks commitment. Make it known that you want a relationship. Then, she has to recipocate or reject. Either way, you'll figure out how she feels. Girls will flirt with guys they're not even interested in just to get attention. You showing your hand forces her hand.
Author buffonsave Posted April 19, 2009 Author Posted April 19, 2009 dude no way relationship...weve just been talking for 2 weeks...im just gonna be genuine and honest, im gonna see her tommorrow and talk to her...tell her i was surprised to see her at the club, got a little nervous when i saw her...but it was a good nervous...and see from there...i dunno,or wait for an oppurtunity to see if i can get her to come for lunch with me...lately when i talk to her i start to feel anxious i dunno why...
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