lostinboston Posted April 19, 2009 Posted April 19, 2009 So after over 8 yrs together and trying to make things work, she tells me there is nothing else we can do and that I should move out. I am so lost right now. I am 33 yrs old and have given this girl everything I got for almost 9 yrs. I am in shock. I cant stop thinking about what to do, where to go, etc. We are very civil and still living together. What to do? LOSTTTTTTT
fastnfurious Posted April 20, 2009 Posted April 20, 2009 First of all dude, you need to get the hell out of there. Living in the same space after a breakup DOES NOT work. You are STILL constantly in each other's faces and you will continue to get reminded of her. You need to start NC ASAP. Also, have you guys sat down and addressed your problems? Gone and seen a relationship counsellor??? It all helps to talk and get everything out in the open............
Author lostinboston Posted April 20, 2009 Author Posted April 20, 2009 First of all dude, you need to get the hell out of there. Living in the same space after a breakup DOES NOT work. You are STILL constantly in each other's faces and you will continue to get reminded of her. You need to start NC ASAP. Also, have you guys sat down and addressed your problems? Gone and seen a relationship counsellor??? It all helps to talk and get everything out in the open............ I am in the process of moving out. WE have discussed our issues several times. She says "something is missing and her gut tells her NO to the marriage thing." I suggested counseling but she said we already tried every possible thing we could have so the answer there is "NO." sigh sigh:sick:
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