twicebitten Posted April 19, 2009 Posted April 19, 2009 Ok, kind of embarrassing ... But I seem to be 'haunted' by my ex-BF when it comes to sex ... sexual-thoughts, vivid-dreams, etc.,!? I'm not exactly a spring-chicken (44 YO) & was married for 15 years, a reasonable amount of BF's/lovers before marriage, so experienced enough ... but to be honest my ex-BF was my BEST lover EVER!! We were like sexual-soul-mates, or something!!? We had an almost combustable chemistry ... even when we just looked into each other's eyes! And the KISSES were HEAVEN!! And eventhough it's only been 6 weeks since break-up (and even tried to date a new guy) I have lost my sexual-desire & I feel as if NO ONE will ever be able to fill-his-shoes, in that way!!? Is this normal ... anyone else feel this way ... gotten over this 'sexual-obsession' over an ex!??? What can I do to FORGET his look ... kiss ... touch!??? Thank you for any insights on this!! XOXO - TB -
TaraMaiden Posted April 19, 2009 Posted April 19, 2009 Imagine him 45 years from now, bent over, wrinkled, incontinent with a colostomy bag, no teeth, no hair and riddled with arthritis.... This is the fate of most people. You, me, everyone. (if we happen to manage to live this long, of course.) _/l\_
Author twicebitten Posted April 20, 2009 Author Posted April 20, 2009 ... That's FUNNY Tara!! I've been TRYING to picture this (To turn myself OFF)! But so far ... NOT working!! I can only seem to picture him, AS IS!!! UGH!! ANYONE ELSE going through this, or something similair!?? I feel like a nympho thinking about HIM!!! XO - TB -
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