Colima Posted April 19, 2009 Posted April 19, 2009 I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 months over a woman he is in contact with. She is 15 years younger than him. He and I are the same age. He is close to his ex-wife, ex-girlfriends, and has many female friends. None of that bothered me - except I had a weird feeling about this particular woman. Well, on Valentine's Day, he texted her asking her, "Will you be my Valentine?" He didn't ask me to be his Valentine. In fact, he did nothing for me for Valentine's Day. He told me he didn't believe in Valentine's Day! Then, I was the victim of an assault. He took me to the hospital. While I was in the exam room, he was outside texting her. She asked him to go to a show with him that night, and he agreed. He didn't say, "Hey, my girlfriend is in the hospital and really needs me right now so sorry I can't go," he said "Sure, I'd love to!" He didn't say anything about me to her at all. He also went to a party she hosted and lied to me about going - until a picture of him with her at the party showed up on Facebook. He says that they are just friends and that I am overreacting and I am unreasonably jealous and wrong. I say I have every reason to be upset. I say he's infatuated with her and that his behavior is inappropriate for someone in a committed relationship.
TaraMaiden Posted April 19, 2009 Posted April 19, 2009 You are broken up? Over this woman? Then she is all the reason you need to not be in the relationship any more. Now, it doesn't matter any more who she is, or what is happening. You are broken up, and this is no lonbger your concern.#leave it alone, and begin to enjoy your own life again. He seemed very dishonest and callous. So it's probably much better this way. _/l\_ If you copy posts, I will copy replies!
Kaii Posted April 19, 2009 Posted April 19, 2009 He was texting her while you were in the hospital...and then went out to a movie with her instead of staying with you.... OMG, seriously???? Wow, that is so awful. You did the right thing in my eyes. He wasn't committed to you or your relationship and he showed that through his actions relating to this other woman. He even lied to you about going to her house for a party. You would of never heard about it, if it weren't for the pics on Facebook. You are better off. Now you are free to find someone who is honest and committed to you. Good luck
LucreziaBorgia Posted April 19, 2009 Posted April 19, 2009 He says that they are just friends and that I am overreacting and I am unreasonably jealous and wrong. All cheaters say that. I don't think I've ever heard of one that didn't use that line at some point or other. Advice? Stay broken up. There is little point in being with someone who wants to be with someone else.
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