thehibachi Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 when someone says they don't want to get hurt again, not in the relationship mood is it basically a nice way of saying "im not into you"?
CapitalChick Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 Not necessarily.. that could mean absolutely anything! Depends on the situation.
Frankasy Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 Actually what you suggested is unusual meaning that they don't mean it that way. When someones says that they don't wanna get hurt means that they wanna make sure that you're a nice guy/girl, that they can trust you cause they've probably been hurt in the past by their partners and can't stand that feeling of disappointment and hurt again. Basically they wanna be safe with you, they wanna feel warm and loved.
PinkRibbon Posted April 19, 2009 Posted April 19, 2009 I so agree. I said almost the exact same thing a 3 nights ago. I am so hurt and my nerves are so raw that I am not going to jump in with a "thing" with another man until I am certain of their intentions and guidings. I don't want to just drop in a bed to ease my heart. Right now my heart is still with my ex and my body wants nothing. No that the person was gorgeous but I was not and never will be ready. Maybe that is what is going on with the person and you?? Nice guy but she is not ready for what you can offer???
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