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So I've been going out with this girl for about 6 months now. I've had zero sexual history before I was with her, but she is basically the opposite. She's done just about everything, from hooking up with her female friend, doing things in portable bathrooms, sharing a bed with her friend and making out with their boyfriends, getting together with two other girls and providing oral entertainment for one guy whilst drunk... etc. Now I would never cheat on her, and she wouldn't cheat on me (though she has been drunk around other guys in my absence since we started going out), but I've been having a lot of trouble letting what she's done not bother me recently. It's difficult to enjoy myself when we're getting intimate with each other, because her past almost always seems to come into my mind at some point along the way, and that ruins it. I do like her very much, but I'm having doubts about the relationship, mainly because of my own problems coping with what's happened. I know her things are in the past, but that doesn't prevent it from getting to me. I imagine this wouldn't bother all guys, but I know it bothers me. I just need to clear my head on this, and I figured this forum would be a good place to get some advice or help. Maybe what would you do? I just want to have this put into a better perspective and I want to know how other's think they would feel about it.

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Everyone has a past whether its good or bad. It you know that this is going to affect you in the future then you need to end this relationship now. Because the only thing it is going to do is bother you more and more.

 

If you really want to be with this girl and you truely care for her then you need to talk to her and tell her what is bothering you.

 

has she done anything that would give you the impression that she is going to repeat her old ways?

 

If not, then let it go.. be greteful that you found someone that cares about you for who you are.

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