goober_20 Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 Women are so confusing!!! I should start by saying I'm a lesbian incase that affects any responses. I've posted about this before but the situation has changed somewhat since then so I'm posting it over here. Okay I found out my colleague is a lesbian and she asked for my number. She then told me she had a gf but the same night she told me she used to fancy me. I didn't admit I fancied her stupidly and I thought I'd missed my chance. This past week she text me and told me she still likes me and I admitted I liked her too but that I didn't tell her because of her gf. But since then she hasn't made any other moves and I think I should let her make all the moves because shes in a relationship. She talks about how she loves her gf and how she would never cheat, so why tell me she likes me if she doesn't want to do anything about it. I think it might be some kind of mind game. I may be a lesbian but women are still so freakin complicated. Why tell me she like me? get me to admit I like her back. Get my hopes up if shes happy with her gf and wants to stay with her. Do I have any chance here or do I try and get over this? Im hoping someone might understand somewhat what she is doing. Thanx
xpaperxcutx Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 Because had the situation been different, she probably would ask you out. But that is not the case right now. Why are you asking about her? The answer should be obvious, whether it is a hetero or lesbian relationship. You should never get involved with a another person who is involved with someone else. She has no motive, other than maybe have a fling with you if you agree. If you ask me why, it's mostly associated with the adrenaline rush that occurs when they're doing something they're not suppose to. The girl sounds like trash in my opinion. If she already had a gf, she shouldn't even be thinking about someone else.
Author goober_20 Posted April 19, 2009 Author Posted April 19, 2009 I guess I'm asking because she is in my head all the time,we work together a few days a week so there is no way I can avoid her. She must have a reason why she texts me all the time, tell me she likes me and flirts all the time. She also asked me to go out with her next week. I just really don't get her and I was hoping someone would know what these games mean. Perhaps it is just an adrenaline rush to her. Any advice?
xpaperxcutx Posted April 19, 2009 Posted April 19, 2009 I guess I'm asking because she is in my head all the time,we work together a few days a week so there is no way I can avoid her. She must have a reason why she texts me all the time, tell me she likes me and flirts all the time. She also asked me to go out with her next week. I just really don't get her and I was hoping someone would know what these games mean. Perhaps it is just an adrenaline rush to her. Any advice? Decline her date. You need to find a gf that doesn't cheat.
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