Snow Trap Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 Hi im in absolute dire need of advice... I never date people as i hate getting to close to people and kind of have a shell around me when i start getting close to someone, however last june i started to date a girl from work and we were togther untill october. I was really nice and we spent everyday togather however i really struggled to be myself around her. we eventually split for no reason then fell out then stopped speaking all togather, deleted each others numbers ect, it wasnt even bitter but i needed to cut all contact to make myself feel better i guess as i kept thinking about her. to cut it short, about a month ago she txt me and we began contact again, just social chatting untill eventually we decided to meet again the other day, we ended up kissing and acting like a couple again all be it we were drunken. she said she cant be with anyone without me even asking about relationships which made me think she must have been. were going to my friends party tomorrow night and she was insistant i come and get changed at hers. i still like her and i think she knows i do, is she playing me around? she has been cheated on before a couple of years ago and i don't think she ever got over it. i want her back, and i know it's not always possible but whats anyones advice on this? all will be appreciated!
Jade 02 Posted April 19, 2009 Posted April 19, 2009 Hi snow All though I'm not one to give advice on a relationship,but I would just take one small step at a time with her,and see where it leads you. Doesn't sound like a game to me,but maybe she is not seeing anyone right now,and maybe she is using you for something to do? Maybe? I don't know but hey take it slow. jade
carhill Posted April 19, 2009 Posted April 19, 2009 I never date people as i hate getting to close to people and kind of have a shell around me when i start getting close to someone How's that going? At the extreme end, that's a psychological attachment disorder. Any thoughts on that?
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