Vetgirl88 Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 My roommate recently started dating a guy that I had been involved with for about a week. I wasn't that into the relationship. It was actually more of a rebound. So, it didn't really bother me that much. Especially since she had known the guy for a few years before I had ever met him. The problem is that now she seems to be best friends with my ex-boyfriend of almost a year. She knows how I feel about him. She knows how much he hurt me, and I've even told her that I thought he was the guy I was going to marry one day. And, he's the only person that I've EVER felt that way about. I'm still really hurt by the whole situation with him. To the point where I can't stand to talk about him or to him, and she knows this because I express it openly. Yet, she still hangs out with him and invites him over to our house. It just feels like a pattern is developing of her dating guys that I used to be involved with. And it aggravates me that my ex seems to be her new best friend. It's like she took my place. And, the few times I've brought it up her response is that it was my fault for falling that hard for him in the first place. What do i do?
Author Vetgirl88 Posted April 18, 2009 Author Posted April 18, 2009 Move out perhaps? I am moving out, actually. But, it's not for a few months and my roommate and I were really good friends before all of this started. She doesn't know that this is the reason I've decided to move. I guess I'm just not sure if there's a friendship worth saving here or not.
xpaperxcutx Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 I am moving out, actually. But, it's not for a few months and my roommate and I were really good friends before all of this started. She doesn't know that this is the reason I've decided to move. I guess I'm just not sure if there's a friendship worth saving here or not. Sounds like a backstabber. You don't need to salvage a friendship like this, next thing you know, she'd be after your ex- husband.
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