SpanksTheMonkey Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 I'm just wondering in guys minds whats the difference between cute girls and hot ones? Not just looks wise ether mind you. To me it means ones the kind they wanna bang in the bathroom and ones the kind they would feel comfortable taking home to meet mom am I wrong here? Thanks in advance..
windows Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 A hot girl would be the ones a guy would chase after by thinking with his penis I think... and a cute girl would be the one where the guy is more interested into the quirks of her personality.. the "cute" personality?
Viking Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 For me, they are also separate. Hot girls are the ones who when you see them, they make your jaw drop, and you think to yourself, "Wow, that is one fine looking lady." Because of this, they most often have douchebag boyfriends, but go out for attention. The "hot" girls are the ones oftentimes are vapid and lack any sort of real personality. They've never needed to develop themselves past their looks. Cute girls on the other hand, are the girls who you have classes with, and begin to notice the little things about them. Like, say for instance, the curve of their nose, if they have a slightly crooked tooth, their eye color, etc. You aren't immediately drawn to their face and neckline, but rather, you are able to take in the whole package and see that overall, they're quite a catch. Once you get to know a cute girl, they're a lot of fun. And because they aren't always all about their looks, they oftentimes enjoy outdoorsy kind of activities. Not afraid to get dirty so to speak. Now, there are hot girls who are exceptions, but those are rare. To me, a girl becomes hot after I've gotten to know her for who she is. She doesn't have to be a model to be hot. She can be in good shape, of good personality and nice and then the attraction begins to build even more from there.
Author SpanksTheMonkey Posted April 18, 2009 Author Posted April 18, 2009 Interesting thanks guys so being called cute isn't the dating kiss of death I thought it might have been lol... Little info toward this thread I joined a dating site recently and lately a few guys have commented that I'm cute. I wasn't 100% sure how to take that other then just being the consolation prize to hot so I wanted to get some in depth advice on it. Ive gotten hot comments from a small few but they were all old enough to be my father which I don't know wither to be faltered or creped out by that yet lol..
carhill Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 lately a few guys have commented that I'm cute. Was that before or after they met you in person? IMO, compliments are like candy. Now, if I were to look at you, I might compliment you on specifics, like the color of your eyes or how you do your hair. This says I'm noticing details about you and not just seeing an overall image. It also means I'm taking the time to notice and evaluate those details. Just so you know, a hot gal I'd like to "bang in the bathroom" can be the same cute gal I'd like to take home to mom. Those two things don't have to be mutually exclusive. Our personalities are made up of many facets. IOW, I can be respectful and a gentleman and also be uninhibited and "dirty". The words you're hearing are perhaps indicative of how you are currently being perceived. Does that jive with your internal image?
Author SpanksTheMonkey Posted April 18, 2009 Author Posted April 18, 2009 Was that before or after they met you in person? IMO, compliments are like candy. Now, if I were to look at you, I might compliment you on specifics, like the color of your eyes or how you do your hair. This says I'm noticing details about you and not just seeing an overall image. It also means I'm taking the time to notice and evaluate those details. Just so you know, a hot gal I'd like to "bang in the bathroom" can be the same cute gal I'd like to take home to mom. Those two things don't have to be mutually exclusive. Our personalities are made up of many facets. IOW, I can be respectful and a gentleman and also be uninhibited and "dirty". The words you're hearing are perhaps indicative of how you are currently being perceived. Does that jive with your internal image? This is before they actually meet me carhill just in the initial stages of meeting on the site itself. If anything ever worked out the best I could hope for would be a LDR hopefully with a nice Aussie guy maybe. Yea pretty much I'm a genially nice/sweet type person for those who get to know me. I'd rather be called cute then hot to be honest for some reason no offense to hot women lol! But Ive always thought hot sounded trashy on some level or cheep. But on the flip side I wasn't sure if cute was just a nice way of saying your not overly attractive but your not a complete dog ether. **Ugh** some times I think too much looks are so individual after all arnt they..
Sibyl Vane Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 I'd take cute over hot any day. Yeah, right. I will always be "cute". And while it's nothing to turn my nose up at, it has become quite obvious that it will pretty much put me in the friends category for most hot guys. And even some of the "cute" ones. Which is fine, I don't find looks to be as important, probably as a result, but it is kind of insulting.
39388 Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 Yeah, right. I will always be "cute". And while it's nothing to turn my nose up at, it has become quite obvious that it will pretty much put me in the friends category for most hot guys. And even some of the "cute" ones. Which is fine, I don't find looks to be as important, probably as a result, but it is kind of insulting. Why should you bash me for saying this and why lump every guy into a box? I'm tried of paying for the actions of idiot stupid guys who only want to date "thin, hot" women. Every time, I say to someone I have no problem dating someone overweight, I get called a liar. Does it mean they think I'm not manly enough? Who the **** knows.
Sibyl Vane Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 Why should you bash me for saying this and why lump every guy into a box? I'm tried of paying for the actions of idiot stupid guys who only want to date "thin, hot" women. Every time, I say to someone I have no problem dating someone overweight, I get called a liar. Does it mean they think I'm not manly enough? Who the **** knows. At what point did I say anything about weight? Why jump to the conclusion? I apologise if you thought I intended to "bash" you in any way, just in a bad mood I guess. Nothing towards you. Anyway, this will derail the OP further. Sorry.
39388 Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 At what point did I say anything about weight? Why jump to the conclusion? I apologise if you thought I intended to "bash" you in any way, just in a bad mood I guess. Nothing towards you. Anyway, this will derail the OP further. Sorry. Sorry that I came off so strongly. I'm kind of in a bad mood too. I was probably taking out some frustration against others, mostly those in another thread bashing overweight women. I don't think like the average guy and it just seems to bother me how often I get attacked for it. I do stand by cute over hot.
carhill Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 **Ugh** some times I think too much looks are so individual after all arnt they.. My opinion is your physical appearance has nothing to do with what makes others perceive you as cute or hot. Try changing/altering how you feel about that person you see in the mirror and be open to experience what happens
Author SpanksTheMonkey Posted April 18, 2009 Author Posted April 18, 2009 Why should you bash me for saying this and why lump every guy into a box? I'm tried of paying for the actions of idiot stupid guys who only want to date "thin, hot" women. Every time, I say to someone I have no problem dating someone overweight, I get called a liar. Does it mean they think I'm not manly enough? Who the **** knows. Woha No worries guys calm down heres a happy bunny for every one:bunny: lol.. Now I think maybe 39388 knows from some of my past posts I'm an overweight person. So thats were he got the dating overweight people thing from thats all I dunno why some people don't believe it 39388 I do. I actually just registered on a site for average people too tonight but being 100% honest mind you. cause I know theres guys like you who don't overly care about size so thats nice to know. I don't lump all guys into any category any more thats one thing Ive learned with age **sigh** why do we have to get older to get wiser lol....
Author SpanksTheMonkey Posted April 18, 2009 Author Posted April 18, 2009 My opinion is your physical appearance has nothing to do with what makes others perceive you as cute or hot. Try changing/altering how you feel about that person you see in the mirror and be open to experience what happens Excellent advice carhill and Ive been doing just that the last few months and honestly I can see the difference in response from people. Just walking around with my head held high sure some people are still wankers but thats their prob I'm a good person and I have good qualities to offer some one...
carhill Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 Tip: If you want to feel more "hot", actively imagine what you would like to do to this or that guy with your body. Feel that desire. Look them in the eye. Hot
somedude81 Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 For me the difference between cute and hot is the appearance of innocence. Cute girls seem younger and more youthful. Both a cute girl and a hot girl can be beautiful. In my case, I always pick cute over hot. BTW cloths, hair and makeup can turn a cute girl hot by making her look more mature.
monkey00 Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 I think in between 'pretty' is damn fine But anyway I think everyone has a different perception of cute/hot. Beauty lies in the eye of the beholder.
Author SpanksTheMonkey Posted April 18, 2009 Author Posted April 18, 2009 Then there's ovulation pheromones. Hot What exactly would a ovulation pheromone be? lol..
Author SpanksTheMonkey Posted April 18, 2009 Author Posted April 18, 2009 The stench that drives you insane Well that would have been my ex but not insane in a good way mind you the man seamed to be afraid of water hense hes my ex lol..
Author SpanksTheMonkey Posted April 18, 2009 Author Posted April 18, 2009 Then there's ovulation pheromones. Hot So Mr carhill do you think theres actually anything to pheromones? I was reading about this a while ago and its up in the air if it works on humans from what I saw. I dunno but something interesting remembering back when I was preg with my son just about every man in a 2 block radius was hitting on me. I was like WTF! I wonder if that some how attracts men on a subconscious level I mean it was noticeable and its never been like that ever since..
V.Vixen Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 I think I put off both... I am told that my gap in my teeth makes me cute. I think the environment I am in changes everything, and how I am dressed. That might be the case for a lot of women. Like, if I am out at a club and dancing.. hot. If I am sitting in a classroom or at work.. cute. I like to think that it doesn't have to be mutually exclusive, AND that "hot" doesn't always equal void of personality. There are the women who are hot AND have a "cute" personality.
lino Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 Well to be honest, I've never called a female that I'm interested in romantically either of those words. Well not to her face anyway. From my perspective a hot woman = A woman that makes my blood temperature (and something else ) go through the roof. A cute one = A woman that I find totally adorable, makes me go gaga and just completely melt when I'm in her presence. I reckon the girl who made me find this messageboard was a combination of both. I would have wanted to bang her on the bathroom floor (or anywhere else for that matter ) and I would have loved for her to meet my parents. If anything ever worked out the best I could hope for would be a LDR hopefully with a nice Aussie guy maybe. The "hot" girls are the ones oftentimes are vapid and lack any sort of real personality. They've never needed to develop themselves past their looks. sorry mate, don't agree on that one.
Charles1978 Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 I always go for cute over hot as well. Hot girls all have a mental affliction in general... they're so freakin full of themselves that I have no use for them. Let the dudes who use too much hair product and spray-on tans deal with their crap, not I.
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