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Not cheating but would you have taken them back??


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Ok this was last year 2008 a week after my birthday. No he never cheated but did break it off with me for one month before asking me back again and we're still at the LDR.

 

Thing first there were lots of problems with both my parents not liking him esp. mainly my mother and then me having me to leave to my native country. He doesn't really know when I will come back to the US. But see what really hurt me was that he call me that day asking to start seeing other people and that there was a girl he was starting to like. So he broke it off with me. Yes I know that's way better off than getting cheated on but yea it does hurts too. He inicially dumped me for another girl. The mother and distance, lonelyness were excuses. I seen couples that never got along with the parents and they still get marry.

 

So anyways then after a month (I'm guessing the new girl didn't work out) he asks me back and I say yes right away. I never mention anything. I never even sat any rules whatsoever. I just took it as if nothing happen.

 

I never mentioned that to him and still don't, I guess I have developed my own defense mechanism.

 

Would you people have taking them back if they dump you to be with someone else???

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If my girl came back to me, I wouldn't take her back at all knowing that she has been with someone else. It'd hurt but just the thought of your love one being with someone else is torture. But hey that just me..

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