H0ney Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 So I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years... for the last 3+ months of the relationship though, I was preparing myself for the breakup and really as of now, despite what some may think.. have no more feelings towards him. I feel like a cold hearted b*tch but honestly, he has cried to me a handful of times and I don't even feel bad! He lied to me a lot and there were a million other things bad in our relationship- but anyways, my point is basically it's been almost a month and I know I made the right decision. I wanted to be single for a while, but I have been hanging out casually with a few different guys at parties and whatever... and SH*T! go figure- I am already really interested in one in particular. We spent the night together the first night we met (we have mutual friends, met @ the bar) but nothing happened for the first 5 nights together. Just talking and having fun. Now though, we are sleeping together and he kisses me hello/goodbye even when we're sober (haha).. we've been on 2 sober dates... his friends seem to like me and they talk about how he really likes me.. we text daily and hang out every few days.. I think he got out of a year long relationship a few months ago also so I'm all confused on where this is headed. I'm happy where it is now- without the title (cause I think we're both really into each other). BUT I'm starting to completly fall for him head over heels and it's making me sooo scared because I don't know if I should back off or go with it... the thought crossed my mind he;s using me for sex but my intuition says no... thoughts please??? I don't want to get my heart broken/be disappointed! thanks in advance!
MN randomguy Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 I'd lay off the sauce Honey, sounds like drinking maybe too big of a part of your lifestyle. It will effect your ability to perceive reality.
Author H0ney Posted April 18, 2009 Author Posted April 18, 2009 i knowww- drinking is a huge part of my life.. (and his) may sounds terrible... but we ARE only 22 year college students.. I know this won't be anything serious ( I am nottttttttt looking for marriage).. but it could be fun for a while, right? I just don't want my heart to be broken! ahh! this sucks!
MN randomguy Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 i knowww- drinking is a huge part of my life.. (and his) may sounds terrible... but we ARE only 22 year college students.. I know this won't be anything serious ( I am nottttttttt looking for marriage).. but it could be fun for a while, right? I just don't want my heart to be broken! ahh! this sucks! Are you drunk right now??? DO you believe that you're special and that the laws of consequences don't apply to you because of your special age? I don't buy into this, "my brain isn't fully developed because I'm 22." Have fun, whatever, do what feels good now, "but it could be fun for a while, right?". Then be surprised when your heart is broken. Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. Do a keg stand for me, would ya?
spookie Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 If you think it won't work out, and you don't want it to, then what are you scared of?
mr.dream merchant Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 If you think it won't work out, and you don't want it to, then what are you scared of? She doesn't want to be used for cooch, which is probably what's happening if all they ever do it get together after drinking.
Author H0ney Posted April 18, 2009 Author Posted April 18, 2009 That's not true- we have been one 2 dates already and he takes initiative to call/text and make plans.....
Island Girl Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 It sounds like he likes hanging out with you. He likes your company. He certainly likes to have sex with you. I don't know if it will develop into anything more. Time will tell. But you have said you do not want anything serious anyway. So just go with it and spend time having fun since this is all you want anyway.
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