wierdmunky Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 My boyfriend of over a year has really no time for me between school and a part time job. I brought up how we never see each other and wonder if he is that into me still. We don't talk. We don't see each other, and if I get lucky I'll get to see him once a week. I told him I loved him and he said he wanted to be sure when he said it back. I let him know I was kind of upset, not hysterical or anything. He also mentions how bad his last relationship with his last gf was so I thought I should give him some room since he says his last gf was too clingy. Everything else is completely fine, he's a gentleman, says all the right things, and isn't a jerk. Recently the conversation has just been strictly facts only. No fun or teasing or whatever. Not to be a quitter, but I'm just not sure if I should break up with him because he is so busy and seems like he never WILL have time. There just doesn't seem to be enough going on in between us. I was wondering if I should wait it out and see how things develop and give us more of a chance, since we haven't collectively spent a lot of time together even though it's been a long time that we've been together.
SaffronBlu Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 I say wait it out and see. He may be going through a stressful period and you demanding alot of his time can really it worse for him. I was going through a similar situation from jan til about now. The lover works full-time monday-sunday + school so it was nearly impossible to see each other other than a few minutes here and there. Communication was limited. However, now he's found a good balance with work, things have improved and he's making time for me and wanting to see me more. I think space is what your guy needs to just find a good balance and clear his head in order to say those 3 little words and move on forward. I know it seems as though it seems like he will NEVER have time, but just have hope and stick through it. I don't want to give you false hope but there are just periods in our life when it's like a tsunami of work/stress and the best thing you can do is just go on with your life and wait for him to make the next move.
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