stillshocked Posted April 17, 2009 Posted April 17, 2009 So, my wife left about 2.5 months ago. Been a real struggle for me since then to get a hold of my emotions. I have gained a lot of perspective into why she left as I now am feeling a lot of the emotions that she was feeling when she was in our marriage. The basic reason why she left is that she didn't feel the "emotional connnection" with me. Things have been pretty bad between us over the past couple of months, and I want them to improve to allow the opportuntity for reconciliation (I haven't decided whether that is what I want or not but don't want to fully close the door). We have kids so we need to maintain some contact. Seems like everyone preaches no contact, but my worry is that she won't see the efforts I make to improve myself and become emotionally available. She also has indicated that she needs her space respected which I want to do as well. Not sure how to make this work?
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