Tryng2Trust08 Posted April 17, 2009 Posted April 17, 2009 So, my ex came over. He brought up some things that happened, reinforcing the fact i was the one that initiated the break up with him. He was overall very nice and I felt uncomfortable at first, but we started to talk and I became more comfortable. He kept asking me about other guys( I have made a few guy friends since him, no dates, nothing like that). He said things that upset him, etc...but he keeps reinforcing the fact I broke up with him and very persistent about any guys I talk to. I told him the only reason I broke up with him was we both seemed miserable, I didnt lose feelings for him, it just didnt seem to be working that great and I think we both deserved to be happy. Thats the truth. I didnt say too much about went wrong, he seemed to be getting upset at times,and I didnt want to argue, so I listened a lot. He does not want to get back together b/c he is under to much stress with his job(I think thats bs), but would like to keep in contact. At this point I said it's ok to keep in contact, but please do not bring up other guys, even if it is to make a joke, etc...thats not a joke to me and I feel like theres a hidden meaning behind it....He doesnt wanna date me, so why ask about other guys? Why keep telling me I broke up with him...
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