Juniper22 Posted April 22, 2009 Posted April 22, 2009 Juniper22, What has been your personal experience with men? I'd like to know your answers to my OP (or just the 1st question if #2 doesn't apply to you). Well, I have found out in several ways in the past. One way was, when I dated a guy and he had me over for a nice romantic dinner, followed by him taking out a porn movie to watch.I ended up seeing his "stash" in his closet where he kept alot of his porn movies at the time. Another time was when I had came out and asked a guy if he enjoyed some porn. I don't have a real issue with it, unless its done alot and taking away from the relationship. I even made it clear to him that I didn't really have a issue with it. The thing is, he lied about it, even after he knew I wasn't really bothered by it. He point blank told me "NO" he wasn't into porn and never really cared for it. I found that out for sure when we had moved in together, and I sat down at the computer desk to look through the mail and he had left the computer up and running while he had taken the dog outside, and he didn't realize I was home at the time. I think the deal with him was...I think he lied about it because it wasn't so much the fact he was embarrased by the fact he liked porn, it was the fact that I think he was embarrased of what he looked at. He was into some really weird freaky stuff, and I think that's why he just lied about it altogether.
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