music4me Posted April 17, 2009 Posted April 17, 2009 I went out with a guy (and his friend who was in town visiting, this is the first time we met) three weeks ago friday night and all day Saturday. We both had a great time! Friday night was great, so he asked me if I would hang out with him all day Saturday (friend came too). I texted him on Saturday night thanking him for everything. He said that we should do dinner and a movie when he gets back and I said that sounds great! That Sunday he texted me when he was at the airport saying he had a lot of fun. He was going out of town for 2 weeks. He told me that he would call me. Well its been 3 weeks and I haven't heard from him! He got back into town last Friday. I texted him on Thursday during the first week just casually asking him how his job training is going and such, and we texted for a bit. I didn't want to over-text him or anything because and didn't. He also said he'd call me while he was away... and never did. I know he's shy, but dang it I don't think thats an excuse. He also texted me happy easter on sunday, but i think it was one of those mass chain texts. But that's like it and I don't get it. Why would you show interest and ask for a date and then just disappear? I have seen him online on the dating website we met on pretty much everyday... so I am sure he has seen me as well (it shows who is online). I don't know, I just don't get it. I am so disappointed as I really like him and we both had a really great time together (he said so too!) Do you guys think I should text him something like "hey, how are you?" on sunday when he is on his way back for his job training? Or just completely forget him......
Island Girl Posted April 17, 2009 Posted April 17, 2009 Don't chase after him. You have already shown your interest - to be honest I would not have texted him or made any move at all. He said he'd call during his weeks of training - that is what I would have been looking for. And no call would mean he just went down in my perception of him. - I like a guy who does what he says. But water under the bridge and perhaps a lesson to be learned. As far as now - yes, forget him. You made it clear you are interested and he has done NOTHING to warrant further attention. Move on to another. If he chooses to contact eventually I would seriously reconsider any investment of emotion or time. He has already shown he isn't reliable and can blow you off with no thought about it. So he has shown himself to be a sucky person.
carhill Posted April 17, 2009 Posted April 17, 2009 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showpost.php?p=2118605&postcount=2 Last four words are especially important
dreamergrl Posted April 17, 2009 Posted April 17, 2009 Don't chase after him. You have already shown your interest - to be honest I would not have texted him or made any move at all. He said he'd call during his weeks of training - that is what I would have been looking for. And no call would mean he just went down in my perception of him. - I like a guy who does what he says. But water under the bridge and perhaps a lesson to be learned. As far as now - yes, forget him. You made it clear you are interested and he has done NOTHING to warrant further attention. Move on to another. If he chooses to contact eventually I would seriously reconsider any investment of emotion or time. He has already shown he isn't reliable and can blow you off with no thought about it. So he has shown himself to be a sucky person. I completely agree here. I can't stand it when someone says they will do something, and then don't (unless they can provide a good reason for why), it lowers my respect level for them.
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