Lucky555 Posted April 17, 2009 Posted April 17, 2009 we have been talking and laughing ect all online lately. He talks to me everyday! Its been casual talking for 2 months but recently we just began to click, I'm taking my time because I want to know where he is at since in the past we dated but he had issues to sort out at the time. We have known each other for 2 years, but were not very close until now. Problem: its been Everyday contact for 1.5 weeks now. Why has he not asked me out? I don't want to waste my time with this guy either. If he does not want to be with me or anything I really don't feel the need to keep him around, because I want to invest my energy towards someone who i can be with. What do i do?
Lizzie60 Posted April 17, 2009 Posted April 17, 2009 It's only been 1.5 week... you need to relax.. Give him another week.. and maybe you can 'suggest' a date.. why do you wait for him to do the first move? What is it with women? Aren't we liberated enough to talk for ourselves... to let others know what we want? We're in 2009...
xpaperxcutx Posted April 17, 2009 Posted April 17, 2009 I posted recently about a possible relationship with a guy I met online. Basically, my answer was no when it came to having a relationship with someone who I only talk online. Does your guy ever see you in person or meet you for dates? If he hadn't made the moves on, you shouldn't be sitting behind the computer screen expecting him to message you. If a gu really wants to be with you, they would immediately call you.
Author Lucky555 Posted April 17, 2009 Author Posted April 17, 2009 I think if hes interested he will ask me out. This guy is not a big phone person and he is shy. He asked me out before when used to date and he can ask me out again, if he wants to. i guess just a little more time a week. After a week and nothing then I'm just not going to think anything and move on. Thanks, for the advise
BobSacamento Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 Drop hints of stuff you want to do with him. Just be like "You know what I haven't done in a while, (insert thing). I'd love to do that again." and if he's smart/interested/not a pussy he'll say. "Hey I could take you."
Author Lucky555 Posted April 18, 2009 Author Posted April 18, 2009 Drop hints of stuff you want to do with him. Just be like "You know what I haven't done in a while, (insert thing). I'd love to do that again." and if he's smart/interested/not a pussy he'll say. "Hey I could take you." well I am kind of glad he has not asked me out since i am stressed and such with exams ect. But I would like him to ask me out and then he and i could set a date. I like your approach but if I say that what you are telling me, he might want a date now. I would have done this if I had time right now. I guess I am very eager to know if he plans on dating, if not then I don't want to waste my time or get to like him more (if there is really nothing). Even though he does contact me, he has not said, anything about liking me (which i know guys don't like to do this) its kind of just laughing, having fun, and talking. I do enjoy our conversations but I like him and i want more. This is tough.
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