jessicasilver Posted April 17, 2009 Posted April 17, 2009 my ex dumped me 2months ago i was heart broken i tried to win him back he wouldnt have any of it! so i decided to just let go and go NO CONTACT, 2 weeks after no contact he writes to me on msn so we decide to be just friends, usually im a regular user of msn but recently i decided to give it a break as my exams are approaching so i appear offline that way im not distracted, i appeared offline for almost a week and my ex nver came on, so i decided to come on today to catch up a bit and one hour later he signs in :S i didnt speak to him and he didnt speak to me, i got signed out of msn and signed back in and he wasnt online then he signed back in as soon as i did! mmmm what do u think that means?? am i going insane??
BCCA Posted April 17, 2009 Posted April 17, 2009 am i going insane?? Well, youre certainly obsessing. And Im not certain I understand your question, are you asking why hes signing on MSN when he is? Because, that could be for a million reasons. Or are you asking why he isnt talking to you even though youve been off MSN for a whole week?
Author jessicasilver Posted April 17, 2009 Author Posted April 17, 2009 basically he comes on msn when im online, if i dont come on he wont, i wasn't on for a week and he never came on until i decided to sign in online today and he appeared online an hour after me... its weird.. i just thought that maybe he still misses me and wants me to make conversation with him
DJMarky Posted April 17, 2009 Posted April 17, 2009 You may be imagining things, you may not be. The point is it shouldn't matter! If you really want to go NC, block and delete him. Then you won't start wondering if he wants to speak to you, if he is still thinking about you, whether he waits for you to come on msn etc etc. I did it, it definitely helps.
fofiffs Posted April 17, 2009 Posted April 17, 2009 Delete him off your contacts. I mean everything Facebook, Myspace, etc...everything. Yourmind is playing tricks on you. I went through the same thing when my ex broke up with me almost two months ago..
Truly Lost Posted April 17, 2009 Posted April 17, 2009 I think you are reading into it too much. Your ex broke it off with you. If he wanted you back he would contact you, end of story. It isn't that complicated. Yeah maybe some pride issues might be involved, but if he was bold enough to break it off, he can be bold enough to contact you back, if he wants you back. Breaking up is a big change in your life so its no wonder when you see little things like this that you hope it means something more than it actually is. Nothing has happened as a result so there isn't really any need to looking into it any further. Try to move on. Things usually happen when you least suspect. Sorry you're hurting.
Author jessicasilver Posted April 17, 2009 Author Posted April 17, 2009 thanks for all your opinions and i do understand how my mind could be playing tricks on me because at the moment im going through a really bad time i guess its a phase of every break up, we analyse our exs behaviour and turn it into false hope to help us reach closure in a way. its driving me up the wall...i have blocked him several times and then unblocked him again, just as i give up and move on he always seems to appear or call me or text me and drags me back to square one again! whenever im online he changes his screen name to stuff like... 'we are going driving tomorrow!'' or ''today was wicked'' and i try not to think that its aimed at me but when im not online he just signs in with only his name!!
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