Such a beautiful dream!

April 20, 2009

The best support I could give a 15 year old girl contemplating a 25 year old man whom she has met on the internet as her "eternal beloved" would be to realize that you simply don't have enough life experience yet to truly understand why you're getting all these negative posts from everyone who is concerned over the situation you've described.

I can believe that your parents are going along with this...it sounds to me as though this is a common pattern in your life so far...you've always gotten what you've wanted.

All four of my children are adults now...and there's no way I would have allowed my 15 year old daughter to "date" a 25 year old man...and would have had some SERIOUS issues with her considering/calling him her "eternal beloved".

My advice to you would be the same as what everyone else has already said...you're too young, and haven't yet LIVED enough to know what an "eternal beloved" consists of. You have a romanticized belief of what love should be...and no experience of what true long term love IS.

Take a step back...stop considering this guy as your "eternal beloved"...learn to be his FRIEND in real life (not just limited to gaming and MSN) first.

Let him do the same.

Then see what happens by the time you're actually old enough to make a decision here.

April 23, 2009

He teaches you about drinking and taxes?! Wow, romantic :love: If he is such a great guy , can he not think about something more interesting to teach you about the adult world? Or is he just a bit boring and hasn't got anything REALLY cool to teach you? What does this guy do?-how did you meet? And for pete's sake, avoid the taxes as long as you can!! You're 15, go have fun, seriously!!!!!

Although I don't really believe you're 15

April 24, 2009

Why does no one believe me?! God. Would you like me to post a picture of myself, holding up a sign saying I AM NOT A TROLL, LOVESHACK?! Here ya GO!! Sheesh!

http://i729.photobucket.com/albums/ww300/Catrionna/e8134cf7.jpg?t=1240531920

For those who believe me, thanks for the support. It always seem, though, that the troublemakers get the most attention.

Reggie and the other haters can go jump off a cliff. I shouldn't care what they believe.

Brilliant, all. Brilliant. All this talk of me "Changing" as I age is beginning to be a bit unsettling. Thank you to whoever it was that talked of her cousin or something who was my age and married 15 years apart. I should like to meet her. We'd discuss all matters of love. And by the way, being a bit "Emotionally stunted" doesn't sound all that bad in comparison to what SOME people have been saying about my relationship with my Eternal Beloved.

I'll have a nice hot bubble bath and some tea and do my best not to think about anything the others have said about age and changing. E.B. will be on tomorrow night, so I can as always, confide in him. He's always so comforting about these things. A few hours of virtual snuggling always makes things ten times better. Do wish me luck, as I think I feel another hurricane of needless worry coming on. This time over weather I'll "change" as I grow older. I think I'll keep re-reading the happy post about the 15-year-old and her husband.

Positive affirmation time:

I am a young beauty.

I am deeply and devotedly and passionately in love.

I know in my heart of hearts that my lover loves me with all of his heart and will never leave me.

I know in my heart of hearts that I will spend the rest of my life with my lover.

I am a passionate writer and artist, whose heart is filled with love.

I am beautiful.

There, that's better. =)

April 24, 2009

You are....in deep denial.

April 24, 2009

But I can't see anything with that wig and fake nose & glasses!

April 24, 2009

I don't think you're a troll, nor is this stuff made up.. But I do think that you're glorifying 'love' in unrealistic way - because you're 15. And that's OK, again here's another but .. You really ought to focus your attention and love on someone closer to your own age and not someone older, let alone someone face to face...Not someone you've not met yet and only know through words on a screen and phone calls.

You really have NO idea who this guy truly is. All I can say is, it's NOT normal for a 25 year old to be going after a young girl who is 15. There's something 'off' about him and I'm completely shocked that your parents are OK with this.

Anyway, maybe EB will post on LS?

April 24, 2009

You are....in deep denial.

she thinks, therefore she is!

April 24, 2009

she thinks, therefore she is!

A true beauty!

Listen young'un... why are you here on the Adult infidelity and OW boards? Go on to the Dating, cheating section, where the younger crowd hang out... seriously, you are not married, nor an adult... it's kinda inappropriate you hanging out here... do your parents know about your posts here? (since they read all your love chats to your beloved?). Parents: this is not for children, seriously...

April 24, 2009

I have no idea who this guy really is? Well I'm bound to know very soon. He is, after all, coming over this summer. If my parents trust him, I trust him. Trust. An unsettling word for some of you, isn't it? My theory is that all the haters are denying the fact that I have met THE ONE, because they have been so hurt and rejected and crushed into the ground that they no longer believe in "THE ONE".

Athena-- Ha ha ha. That's so brilliant. Ha ha ha. I'm doubled over laughing. Ha. Ha. Oh, please, make it stop. Ha ha ha ha. =/

Whichwayisup- at the very start of the relationship, *I* fell for *him* and chased him like any lustful teenager would for three entire months. Our first rough spot was two months after we started dating, when we found out each other's ages. It was a bit troublesome, but we looked up the technical legal stuff and found out that as long as he doesn't show up at my door until I'm 16 (He'll be here on my birthday!) it's all legal. And since we had that figured out and were too far in puppy love to break it off, we continued. And that puppy love has turned into devoted passion. I re-emphasize: I chased HIM. And when I finally caught him in my siren's arms, I've been using those arms to hold and caress him and feed him peeled grapes and he has loved every waking minute of it!! =DDD

April 24, 2009

This child really does have a future as a historical romance novelist. If she doesn't met and psychopath and her parents don't pay for him to visit.

April 24, 2009

This child really does have a future as a historical romance novelist. If she doesn't met and psychopath and her parents don't pay for him to visit.

Well, they did meet on the Internet, but I don't think it was Craigslist...

April 24, 2009

Chickie - This is not a forum for you. Get off the OW/OM board. Go to LDRs, or Dating, but not here.

For a girl who is so seriously convinced that her EB loves only her and that you two will be together forever, why did you post all that stuff on your blog about him telling you that he didn't think he can be faithful to you?

I'll tell you WHY he can't be faithful to you. Because you are a little girl, and he is a grown man who needs an adult relationship. (Although, I think he has more than one screw loose for carrying on in this way with a little girl anyway.)

Your parents should have their heads examined for not controlling your computer usage better. Get off the Virtual Life crap, and get a real life like a teen-ager.

And learn to cook. That blueberry yogurt on wet bread grossed me out, and if you think that will impress a man, you have another think coming.

April 24, 2009

This child really does have a future as a historical romance novelist. If she doesn't met and psychopath and her parents don't pay for him to visit.

Sorry to correct, but shouldn't that be "hysterical romance novelist"

April 24, 2009

I have no idea who this guy really is? Well I'm bound to know very soon. He is, after all, coming over this summer. If my parents trust him, I trust him. Trust. An unsettling word for some of you, isn't it? My theory is that all the haters are denying the fact that I have met THE ONE, because they have been so hurt and rejected and crushed into the ground that they no longer believe in "THE ONE".

Athena-- Ha ha ha. That's so brilliant. Ha ha ha. I'm doubled over laughing. Ha. Ha. Oh, please, make it stop. Ha ha ha ha. =/

Whichwayisup- at the very start of the relationship, *I* fell for *him* and chased him like any lustful teenager would for three entire months. Our first rough spot was two months after we started dating, when we found out each other's ages. It was a bit troublesome, but we looked up the technical legal stuff and found out that as long as he doesn't show up at my door until I'm 16 (He'll be here on my birthday!) it's all legal. And since we had that figured out and were too far in puppy love to break it off, we continued. And that puppy love has turned into devoted passion. I re-emphasize: I chased HIM. And when I finally caught him in my siren's arms, I've been using those arms to hold and caress him and feed him peeled grapes and he has loved every waking minute of it!! =DDD

I'd like to point something out to you.

You're at the age where you know far, far more than any adult out there.

Right now...you know it all. Everything. Your perception of the world is concrete, you've got all the answers. (And go back and re-read your posts on this forum...that's exactly what you're dripping with every sarcastic word you've written here).

But here's the thing...all of us...every single one of the people posting to you on this forum...went through that exact same stage.

What you're going to find is that "grown ups"..."old people"...whatever you want to call us...are going to remain stupid for the next 3-5 years. Right until you get out on your own, and reality starts to hit you between the eyes.

And the funny thing is...you'll find that all those people who were so "stupid" when you were 15 all of a sudden start getting smarter and smarter.

But...even taking the time to type this out for you is a waste of time at this point in your life.

You're a spoiled 15 year old princess who's cowed her parents into letting her get away with things that truly caring parents who took took their daughter's best interests in mind would have NEVER coddled to this level.

I don't envy you. I feel sorry for you, that you're going to have to deal with a reality that is soooo much harsher than your parents have prepared you for. I worry for you...because your childish fantasy world is going to provide you no learning curve to help you ease into the real world.

Good luck, princess.

April 24, 2009

I'd like to point something out to you.

You're at the age where you know far, far more than any adult out there.

Right now...you know it all. Everything. Your perception of the world is concrete, you've got all the answers. (And go back and re-read your posts on this forum...that's exactly what you're dripping with every sarcastic word you've written here).

But here's the thing...all of us...every single one of the people posting to you on this forum...went through that exact same stage.

What you're going to find is that "grown ups"..."old people"...whatever you want to call us...are going to remain stupid for the next 3-5 years. Right until you get out on your own, and reality starts to hit you between the eyes.

And the funny thing is...you'll find that all those people who were so "stupid" when you were 15 all of a sudden start getting smarter and smarter.

But...even taking the time to type this out for you is a waste of time at this point in your life.

You're a spoiled 15 year old princess who's cowed her parents into letting her get away with things that truly caring parents who took took their daughter's best interests in mind would have NEVER coddled to this level.

I don't envy you. I feel sorry for you, that you're going to have to deal with a reality that is soooo much harsher than your parents have prepared you for. I worry for you...because your childish fantasy world is going to provide you no learning curve to help you ease into the real world.

Good luck, princess.

:bunny::bunny:AMEN! AMEN!:bunny::bunny: Can you come talk with my kid?

April 24, 2009

:bunny::bunny:AMEN! AMEN!:bunny::bunny: Can you come talk with my kid?

I know what you mean. I thought this was funny when I envisioned the OP as a creative adult troll. It's not nearly as funny now ...

April 24, 2009

I know what you mean. I thought this was funny when I envisioned the OP as a creative adult troll. It's not nearly as funny now ...

With this, I completely agree.

A troll just posts provocative comments/viewpoints to stir up a fight.

If this is real, it's a much, much less funny situation.

April 24, 2009

You are probably right. I should leave... My Eternal Beloved doesn't like me here anyway. It upsets me too much. I used to love all the real-life romance novels here about people falling in love and then dealing with breakups. But now it just makes me miss him and wonder if the same crap will happen to me. I should leave. you guys fill my innocent little head with too many worries: "Will he stay loyal?" "Does he love me?" "Am I capable of love?!" "Will the 'real world' suck eggs?" I think I'll be lucky if you guys don't bring my depression back. =( Thanks a lot. Screw you.

~One sad, sad, little lover

April 24, 2009

You are probably right. I should leave... My Eternal Beloved doesn't like me here anyway. It upsets me too much. I used to love all the real-life romance novels here about people falling in love and then dealing with breakups. But now it just makes me miss him and wonder if the same crap will happen to me. I should leave. you guys fill my innocent little head with too many worries: "Will he stay loyal?" "Does he love me?" "Am I capable of love?!" "Will the 'real world' suck eggs?" I think I'll be lucky if you guys don't bring my depression back. =( Thanks a lot. Screw you.

~One sad, sad, little lover

Do you talk to all the adults in your life like this?

"my innocent little head"...sorry...this is a troll...because no child convinced that she was so grown up would refer to herself this way...even in a sarcastic manner

April 24, 2009

You know I have always found something kind of sad about people who need to get their entertainment from causes strife and discord, even to unknown people. The high(pleasure)that they get from this speaks of deeper more disturbing issues, that must spill over into other parts of their lives.

April 24, 2009

Owl- Yes, I do.

On another note, I think of myself as being like Christine Daae. I AM innocent, and young, and delicate. But I'm no child. I'm an innocent, delicate TEEN. One of the countless reasons I do love my Eternal Beloved is because he cares for my fragile side, while recognizing that I am no longer a child. Just a very sheltered young woman.

And furthermore, I AM NOT A TROLL!!

I am not "grown up" but my fiance IS, and he will help me to grow up too.

April 24, 2009

I haven't read the whole thread.. (too lazy) but I read a few posts here and there and I have to say that you certainly do NOT 'sound' like a 15 yr old fragile little princess.. ha-hem..

April 24, 2009

I started to reply, but then remembered my own advice...

"If you don't feed them, they will starve."

April 24, 2009

Just because I'm young and a teen doesn't mean by any stretch of the imagination that I cannot love in the way that adults do. Look at Edgar Allan Poe. Did you know he married a 13-year-old? Now, go read his work, "Annabel Lee", which was about and dedicated to her, and tell me these two were not in love. This kind of thing happened ALL THE TIME among people in the medieval era. And not all the matches were for money or power. Even peasant girls married 35-year-olds. The adult mind basically functioned the same then as it did now. The teenager's mind was still just as "irrational" (Oh, the sarcasm!) And above all, love was still the same emotion.

In truth, I feel very sorry for you all because love has let most of you down so hard. From now on I'm going to start taking better care of myself. I am a treasured individual and the prized only daughter of my parents (I really should try to be nicer to them, methinks... I feel especially loving today) and I don't need you to fill my head with fears and doubts. I am beautiful and I am loved.

And, just for you, Lizzie dear, here's me: http://s729.photobucket.com/albums/ww300/Catrionna/?action=view&current=ec9b94a9.jpg

April 24, 2009

Just because I'm young and a teen doesn't mean by any stretch of the imagination that I cannot love in the way that adults do. Look at Edgar Allan Poe. Did you know he married a 13-year-old? Now, go read his work, "Annabel Lee", which was about and dedicated to her, and tell me these two were not in love. This kind of thing happened ALL THE TIME among people in the medieval era. And not all the matches were for money or power. Even peasant girls married 35-year-olds. The adult mind basically functioned the same then as it did now. The teenager's mind was still just as "irrational" (Oh, the sarcasm!) And above all, love was still the same emotion.

In truth, I feel very sorry for you all because love has let most of you down so hard. From now on I'm going to start taking better care of myself. I am a treasured individual and the prized only daughter of my parents (I really should try to be nicer to them, methinks... I feel especially loving today) and I don't need you to fill my head with fears and doubts. I am beautiful and I am loved.

And, just for you, Lizzie dear, here's me: http://s729.photobucket.com/albums/ww300/Catrionna/?action=view&current=ec9b94a9.jpg

Goodbye, RB. I'm sure we'll miss you as much as you'll miss us.

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