Lost

[lisa6320]

I met my ex about 2 and a half years ago. We got along great for a while than I just started suspected things were going on behind my back. He wouldnt take me around any of his friends for about 7 months and when he finally did a girl that I had always been suspicious of who he told me was "just a friend" was very rude to me. I got upset and just had a feeling like something happened. He continued to talk to this girl and even went on trips with her and others. He kept telling me that he never did anything with her and if I couldnt trust him I shouldnt be with him. I let it go well tried my hardest atleast though it always bothered me. A while later we seemed to be doing much better. I was living with my mom as I am a single mother of two kids. He came to spend the summer with me and we lived together at my moms (He lived about an hour away). Things went pretty well while we were staying there and he got me an engagement ring and we got our own place down his way. We had been living together for only a couple of months when he told me that he didnt want to be with me anymore that I am too controlling and that I didnt treat him like a human being. We still lived together and ended up getting back together. Things were going good again for a while and he stopped talking to most other girls that I ever had suspicions of. He got me a new engaement ring for Valentines day this year and surprised me with a bear he had delivered. We got into a fight about a month later because he went out all night and didnt come home til the next day. It's not that I didnt trust him, I really dont think he was doing anything except drinking with the guys but ive always told him that I dont care if he goes out but we have a family and he should be home at night. In a rage of fury I packed some of his stuff and told him that if he didnt love me to go. He told me he loved me more than anything in this world and didnt want to leave. I had a class the next morning and when I came home he had all the rest of his stuff packed and moved out. He was still coming for dinner once a week and than one day he said maybe we should start dating again and we took the kids to the movies. People started telling me things he was saying behind my back, that I took advantage of him and that he took care of my kids (he watched them while I worked, not for anything else) and that he wasnt going to get back with me that i just kept nagging him. I called him and asked him and he yelled at my that it's a bunch of high school bs and hung up on me. I told him to get the rest of his stuff out of the house and to just let me alon that I couldnt play the games anymore. It's been about 2 weeks now and I havent heard a word from him. I sent him a picture of my ultrasound (turns out Im 9 weeks preg) and he told me that it wasnt his and Im not really preg. He talked to the kids on Easter but he wont speak to me. He told my sister that there is no chance of us ever getting back together and that when the baby is born he will take care of it but besides that he wants nothing to do with me. Also it came out that he was seeing that other girl when we first got together. I was the longest relationship he was ever in, the first girl he ever said I love you to and the only person he's ever lived with. He still has some of his belongings here and also the cable and water bills are in his name. I'm just so torn on how you can give someone a ring one week and decide your done the next. He is moving four hours away in about a month and I am afraid I am going to lose him forever. I gave up everything to move down here and be with him, my family, friends and job. Is there anything I can do to make him want to come back home?