HurtandLost Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 To make a long story short, I dated a girl for 9 months who lived with me for about 7 out of those 9 months, and things were going great. However, her parents encouraged her to go to the Air Force, which I agreed because she made it seem like it was the best choice. She goes away to the Air Force, and writes me letters for the first month along with calls whenever they would allow it. About a month into her being gone she stops calling and writing letters claiming that she felt like she was bothering me and didn't want to intrude on my life.... Well she gets out of boot camp and what do you know.....she has a new boyfriend. She comes back home for a few days, and everything seems back to normal in our relationship, except she feels more distant and is telling me she has to move home because her mom is in bad shape. I agree, not knowing she was actually moving in with her new bf, and the story she had told me was complete bullsh**. I talked to her one last time, letting her know she was more than welcome to pick up her stuff whenever she had a chance, but made it clear I wasn't going out of my way to drop it off. At that point I went NC, and stuck to it firmly in hopes of getting over her as fast as possible. However a couple days ago she sends me an email, which has been the only contact, which reads: Dear (H&L) I just wanted to let you know that i am very sorry. I am finding that i have made one of the biggest mistakes of my life and that i should have put that wall down. I don't expect you to forgive me or ever talk to me again for that matter, but just know that i am really regretting my decision to give up on one of the best things that ever happened to me. I hope all is well and school is going good for you. Bye Handsome (Ex GF) I was beginning to get over her and getting back into a routine of working out everyday, but this letter set me back a couple of weeks and left me puzzled. I was hoping someone can give me some input on this, and help me decide if I should even write her back. I was thinking about just writing her: Dear Ex GF Don't worry about it, it was for the best. (H&L) I hope someone can help me out with this puzzling letter, and help me figure out what to do or not to do...
Flying Burrito Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 I would accept this as closure. No response required.
Author HurtandLost Posted April 16, 2009 Author Posted April 16, 2009 I would accept this as closure. No response required. Yeah, I guess that is really the only answer..... That sucks, I just need to move on...
headlesschicken Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 ithink it sounds like it went to shi-t with the new guy and she's feeling you out to see if she can come crying back to you.
Author HurtandLost Posted April 16, 2009 Author Posted April 16, 2009 ithink it sounds like it went to shi-t with the new guy and she's feeling you out to see if she can come crying back to you. That's what I thought at first, but she wrote that about a week ago and hasn't said anything since.... FU** it I am going to go workout tonight until I pass out to forget about everything......
zzxxx Posted April 17, 2009 Posted April 17, 2009 I agree with headlesschicken. I would just ignore the email. You've been making great progress so far! Don't let it set you back. Plus you'll be a hot babe magnet in no time if you focus your energy on working out instead of on her.
EmperorR Posted April 17, 2009 Posted April 17, 2009 i'd ignore, I mean a letter After All this time not even a phone call pathethic.
Author HurtandLost Posted April 17, 2009 Author Posted April 17, 2009 i'd ignore, I mean a letter After All this time not even a phone call pathethic. LOL, you have a very good point there..... It's funny people are immature to the point of having to sorry over an email instead of picking up the phone and acting civil.... Yeah I am going to stick to the workouts and just see where I can go from there. Thanks for all the responses, makes me feel a lot better..
Author HurtandLost Posted April 19, 2009 Author Posted April 19, 2009 The "Bye Handsome" part is kind of creepy. LOL I think that was her attempt of trying to be cute, cause that is what she used to call me when we were together. Thinking about it, it does sound kind of creepy in a way.
Surfer Dude Posted April 19, 2009 Posted April 19, 2009 She hasn't written since, because things are probably looking good with her boyfriend again. Some chicks can never be alone, and they'll always try to suck someone into relationship with them when there's a threat of being alone. Forget her and go meet other women.
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