enchanted771 Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 Ok, here is the situation. Met this great guy, and 2-weeks after talking he asked me out. Well, that fell through due to his job, and then we resch for 2-weeks later. Well, we hit it off, and everything was great, there was chemistry, etc. So, then we met again but not for a month. He appologized for waiting so long to see me, etc. So, I layed the cards on the table and so determined he is not seeing other people. I got a new apartment (he doesnt have his own) so, we talked and decided to spend more time together. We are getting together again soon(which is less than a month), but I am already stressing about when we will meet again. If I could just relax and let him plan the dates and not make it so easy for him by initiating, then maybe we would see each other more often (maybe I am too pushy) I am slowly trying to back off, and let him do the initiating but its hard. I just worry myself to no end. The other night he said " you can see me whenever you want" If that isnt a hint, I dont know what is. WHat should i do? BTW, this relationship is only 3 months old. This is a trend with me, I have always done this, always stressed out, instead of going with the flow. It would save alot of headaches if i would.
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