Softsoul Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year. We have a wonderful loving relationship. But we had some problems at the beginning: he called me by his ex's name three times and he didn't want to get rid of a toy she gave him that he had in his car on display. We solved that later, but I still have jealousy problems. After this ex left him, he was getting over her for 6 years. I'm asking myself - how can I compete with that?! I know he loves me and that he's over her now (he often tells me that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him), but the thing still bothers me. I know I'm probably immature and too insecure for thinking that way, but I can't help myself. He's much more experienced than I am (he's 30 and I'm 23). I find it difficult to accept his past. How can I get past this issue?! I know it's my problem and not his, because he can't change his past. Please help.
1977bella Posted April 18, 2009 Posted April 18, 2009 Hey there Softsoul ! I seen your post and was very interested , I am in the same position as you .. ( Im 24 and my boyfriend is 32 ) . I cant seem to accept his past or one of his exgirlfriends??? Weve been together for almost 2 years and weirdly these feelings only started lately ?!
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