Question on NC and MSN

[Bgirl]

Hello Guys ,

 

I want to make a long story short , I was seeing a guy for a few months and we were "just talkinng and being friends" however we were intimate and such , and he just couldnt make up his mind about whether he wanted a serious relationship or not and I guess with that it comes that he couldnt make up his mind about me. However our conversations were great and it seemed like we enjoyed each other's company. We had a HUGE fight about 2 months ago because I confronted him on the fact that he had me hanging and he said some pretty hurtful things like " he didnt had to open up because we were just friends " and " if I dont want to be his friend thats fine with him " . So obviously I told him off and as I felt pretty insulted I just got up without even saying bye and left ( we were in a public place chatting )

I got to admit that I liked him and I was hurt over the fact that we spent time together and I felt he lead me on to "throw me just like that afterwards"

We havent talked since and I was fine until last week when I really started missing him ( I know its not smart) ....so I logged on to msn just recently and I noticed he is still in my contacts list , we havent deleted or blocked each other .

Is it wise to leave him on my list even though we dont talk each other and I DONT PLAN on saying a word as I felt he was the one who let me down. or does no NC means to completely go MIA ....?

The only reason why Im debating its because I guess uncouncioulsy I still want to hear from him as I still do miss him ...its like I expect him to come one day and at least wonder how Im doing ....Im probably very wrong about this right ?

[Island Girl]

You should delete him and move on completely.

 

He hasn't deleted you because he may have a chance at meaningless sex with no strings attached again and guys love that.

 

This is about you and what is best for you. It has nothing to do with him.

 

Delete him and do not waste time thinking about him any more.