Nightwalker Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 I know I never posted here before, but I like to lurk and don’t feel I have anything useful to add anyway. I created this account to hear you views on this problem I have been having; Last summer I was madly in love with a lovely girl who worked in the same restaurant as I did. We were very like-minded, whatever that means, and at a certain point I mustered the courage to ask her on a date. She agreed. On the day of the date itself I messed it up completely. I was so much in love that I hadn’t slept the entire week and barely ate and therefore I know I wasn’t my creative self and I must have been pretty boring during the date. I am not saying I am the most charming guy in town, but at least I know I can do much better, she turned me down. After five months, during which we got along just fine, she moved to another city to study and on the final day she was teasing me really much (in a playful way of course) and God knows I made so many mistakes during work that day. Curiously so, nobody noticed it had to do with her leaving, although everybody knew how much I liked her. My colleges were still referring to these mistakes in the following weeks (in a friendly way, not that I cared, I knew the cause). Then 2 months after her leaving I decided to send her a message on face book, just to check in. She didn’t reply immediately, but two weeks later and exactly on Valentine’s Day she send me a general and friendly inquiring message. Now I know the Valentine thing could have been a mere coincidence, but I just don’t know for sure. I was doing a great job forgetting her but since then she is in my head again. My question is should make a move and call her or is it better to let it rest? And why would a sensible girl as I know she is reply on Valentine’s. Can you also please give a number estimate of the chances of this being a coincidence?
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