Kelso Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 I was dating a woman 3 years ago for a relatively short time, only about 8-9 months - but man, did I love her. She broke up with me and I was devastated, you can look up old posts to see that. To all of you who recently got heartbroken, it will get better ... and NC was the best medicine I tried. (The only one actually). A friend of mine, who introduced us in the first place, told me few months ago that she had met another guy. I was so over her that I didn't care. I had held NC for over 15 months, and she was long gone from my mind. I have recently moved in the same street as she used to live in when we were dating. It's a street downtown in our city where lots of people live. Just a total coincidence as my landlord owed my friend some money and we are renting his apartment to clear things out. I went for a long walk tonight. I decided to walk by her house (she doesn't live there anymore - so I'm not a stalker :-) But when I saw the house, and the windows to her room, and the balcony we spent a lot of time together - oh my god it felt bad. It was just like getting punched in the chest and I had to sit down. I missed her soooo much at that moment. I just wanted to call her while sitting there just to see how she was doing. Fortunately, I didn't have my cell phone. Can it be that I'm not completely over this girl that I haven't even thought about for the past 6-7 months ... can it be!!
TaraMaiden Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 Yes. You have just discovered the difference between transcending emotion and suppressing it.
neowulf Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 Yes. You have just discovered the difference between transcending emotion and suppressing it. I'm adding that one to the quote book... Sorry to hear man. It happens. I'm in much the same boat. I suppose time, perspective and eventually a new love will wipe it away... I'm not so sure some days. Just feel the feelings, accept that you're flesh and blood and move forward.
Recommended Posts