martinshook Posted April 15, 2009 Posted April 15, 2009 I am a party animal and quite a regular in social forums like, clubs, pubs and similar events. I have a fair number of women as my friends with whom I intermingle and have a good time. But this is restricted only to the places or events that I frequently attend. I find some of the women very stunning and magnetic, with whom I would like to get together beyond just these parties. I am quite inclined to date them and spend some good moments with them. How do I do this?
alphamale Posted April 15, 2009 Posted April 15, 2009 How do I do this? spot a girl you like and look for positive feedback from her (smile, eye contact, etc)approach her and start to make small talk, don't talk about anything serioussee if she's reacting well and check her body languageafter around 20 minutes of lame chit-chat ask for her numberif she hesitates whatsoever to give her number then move onif she gives you her number then write it down or put in cell and tell her you'll call in a few daystalk to her for five more minutes then make up an excuse to splitleave said facility (bar, restaurant, party, etc)call her exactly three days laterchat on the phone for exactly 3.5 mintues then ask her out for a specific day and time and tell her what you have planned. be specificdon't contact her again until the day before the date and just talk for 2 minutes to confirm the date and whether you'll pick her up or meet somewhereon the day of the date wear nice clothes, a little cologne, make sure you shower, shave, brush teeth. look stylish.pick her up or meet her. do NOT take any flowers or chocolate or any of that ****woo her on the date. pay for everything. open the car door and all that, be confident but not a dick. be nice but not too niceobserve how she reacts to everythingtry to get her to drink as much booze as possiblefrom there you're on your own.
anne1707 Posted April 15, 2009 Posted April 15, 2009 try to get her to drink as much booze as possible You old smoothie
single ape Posted April 15, 2009 Posted April 15, 2009 ask them to hang out.. dude. are you really asking this question?
alphamale Posted April 15, 2009 Posted April 15, 2009 You old smoothie i like to think of it as "social lubricant"
colosseum Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 Alphamale is as he calls himself. Nice posts--listen to the man.
RecordProducer Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 chat on the phone for exactly 3.5 mintues I'd mark him as boring and empty and "next" him instantly. try to get her to drink as much booze as possibleWomen always know when someone is trying to get them drunk. It's not only disrespectful for the woman, but it also shows lack of self-respect, because the message is ' I think you'll like me more if you get wasted.'
Viking Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 I'd mark him as boring and empty and "next" him instantly. Women always know when someone is trying to get them drunk. It's not only disrespectful for the woman, but it also shows lack of self-respect, because the message is ' I think you'll like me more if you get wasted.' What do you know? You're just a...oh wait. Never mind.:laugh: I'd agree more or less with the assessment of this part. Chat with them as long as there isn't a lull in the convo and it isn't just dead air time. Getting them drunk isn't the best if you're looking for a longer lasting relationship...
Lucky_One Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 I can't get my head around the fact that this guy is a party animal and doesn't know how to ask a woman out. If A = B, and B = C, then A is supposed to = C, you know? I suspect he was just a lead-in for Mary, since they have the same stilted way of describing people with their charming and pleasing personalities!
RecordProducer Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 I can't get my head around the fact that this guy is a party animal and doesn't know how to ask a woman out. I don't think the question is how to ask a woman (any woman) out. Look at the title of the thread.
mr.dream merchant Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 Treat them like normal human beings. They aren't used to it.
runner Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 Treat them like normal human beings. They aren't used to it. there's a lot of truth in there
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