argh!!

[DarknessFell]

ok so here's another breakup story. i what i thought was a nice guy over the internet. it was a long distance relationship, i knew what i was getting into or so i thought. after about i find out from the guy's gf, i thought ex gf that they got back together, that they were just taking a short break. so i told the guy that he's an a-hole and a player. he says he didn't remember any of the stuff he ever told me like him wanting to come out and see him and so forth. he said he is happy with his gf. he then told me that i had issues and to f off and to never talk to him again. i told him whatever he needed to say to keep the little world he was in from crashing down. he says that i'm an orca and i told him he was juvenile. that pretty much ended the conversation. i'm really angry now and want his gf to know just how much of a jerk he really is. she said it doesn't matter what happened when they weren't together because they weren't together. i told her if she can handle his juvenile ways than good for her she told me she didn't mean to be rude but she knows him better than i do. so here i am full of rage and sadness. he's happy as a lark with his gf and could give a rat's ass about me. what do i do? i don't want to take revenge because that would be lowering myself to his level and i don't want to do that. he's probably off somewhere laughing at me and he's the better off one. i guess i just want him to feel the pain that i did. will that ever happen? anyone ever been in a similar situation?