Author MeMyself&I Posted April 16, 2009 Author Posted April 16, 2009 What does it mean when a guy only gets hold of you on the weekends (usually, once in a while during the week), hasn't asked you on a real date, but just calls and talks to you a lot though? During the week he's working lots of hours 60-70, so I understand busy during the week. It's spring planting. But just when I think he's forgotten about me he calls and we get along/talk well. Is he just keeping me in his peripheral just in case?!!
Lights Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 Tired of spending the nights before the dates constantly debating with your girl friends about whether or not it's going to be a "date date", all the while slamming down glass after glass of pinot grigio and myriad chocolates out of the box? Try this instead. "Hi. I'm MeMyself&I. I'd like to get to know you better. Interested in going out to McPhadraig's Pub next Thursday?" Problem solved or rejection sustained. End of drama. If you cannot rely on other people to manufacture identifiable "dates" for you, there's only one thing left to do, and be ready for it to almost always get you rejected.
BCCA Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 I would like to answer the topic of this post with a question of my own: Do women ever just say no, or give clear answers on anything?
Trialbyfire Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 I would like to answer the topic of this post with a question of my own: Do women ever just say no, or give clear answers on anything? BCCA, you have to see the irony in your response! And yes, we do respond with clear answers. Role reversal anyone?
Author MeMyself&I Posted April 16, 2009 Author Posted April 16, 2009 Tired of spending the nights before the dates constantly debating with your girl friends about whether or not it's going to be a "date date", all the while slamming down glass after glass of pinot grigio and myriad chocolates out of the box? Try this instead. "Hi. I'm MeMyself&I. I'd like to get to know you better. Interested in going out to McPhadraig's Pub next Thursday?" Problem solved or rejection sustained. End of drama. If you cannot rely on other people to manufacture identifiable "dates" for you, there's only one thing left to do, and be ready for it to almost always get you rejected. Okay, I know you are right and it sounds juvenile not to be able to just do that. I'm not quite sure what you mean by the last phrase that I bolded. Thank you for your feedback.
Author MeMyself&I Posted April 16, 2009 Author Posted April 16, 2009 BCCA, you have to see the irony in your response! And yes, we do respond with clear answers. Role reversal anyone? TBF You are right it is ironic. And yes I give definite answers too BCCA. I'm just a little hesitant to approach this guy because of the age difference I mentioned earlier. You would think as the "senior" member of the two of us I would take the initiative. lol I guess I'm enjoying the flirting, teasing and conversation and I fear the rejection.
BCCA Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 BCCA, you have to see the irony in your response! And yes, we do respond with clear answers. Role reversal anyone? Oh, I do TBF, that was part of the fun! hahaha
Lights Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 Okay, I know you are right and it sounds juvenile not to be able to just do that. I'm not quite sure what you mean by the last phrase that I bolded. Thank you for your feedback. It didn't mean anything out of the ordinary; just that if you can't rely on someone else to offer what you consider a date, asking them on such a thing's all that's really left, and since asking people on dates is inherently a very low-percentage endeavor, one shouldn't be surprised if it gets one particularly direct rejections.
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