ATR Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 I just hope and pray one day, this new guy she's with screws her over so bad and makes her feel the pain she put me through. Try not to think this it makes you sound bitter, but i can understand. She is a stranger now, you have no ill wishes on her, just indifference.
Phateless Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 It hurts telling her that but I just can't stand her trying to be my friend and telling me those things. She told me how amazing her new BF is and that we'll never be together again. Who in their right mind would say something like that. And the thing that really made me mad was that she tried to act all cool about everything after I told her to F**K off. Seriously I despise my ex. I just hope and pray one day, this new guy she's with screws her over so bad and makes her feel the pain she put me through. You're right, she's a moron! Who would do that?! Call your phone company and have her calls blocked. Delete her from facebook, myspace, msn, yahoo, aim, linkedin, skype, twitter, your cell-phone, and anything else you can think of. And empty your house of EVERYTHING that reminds you of her. You need to purge her from your life, NOW.
Peter_pan Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 screw that ex, what a total bitch. god this makes me angry when i hear this stuff. good on you man, keep telling her to **** off untill she gets the message. in fact i would ring her back and tell her to **** off and she is a whore and always will be. then say sorry, but its the truth
Phateless Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 screw that ex, what a total bitch. god this makes me angry when i hear this stuff. good on you man, keep telling her to **** off untill she gets the message. in fact i would ring her back and tell her to **** off and she is a whore and always will be. then say sorry, but its the truth Call her and tell her "hey guess what? I just started dating this girl who is way hotter than you, and so much nicer. I'm totally over you, so if it doesn't hurt you too much, maybe we'll be friends someday."
Author fofiffs Posted April 16, 2009 Author Posted April 16, 2009 **ANOTHER UPDATE WITH A TWIST** Well as you all know I met up with this girl last night that I met on tuesday if you have read the previous post. So anyways I thought I'd text her and see what really was up. So this is how the coversation goes... Me: Sorry about last night. I didn't know you were with someone. Her: No im sorry- if I hadn't been so hammered I would have done a better job of introducing you to my friends! But we had been drinking since 6! Me:Oh ok, I thought he was your BF thats why I felt awkward at the time and the alcohol didn't help. You should let me take you out so there's no confusion. And that was it, I'm just waiting on her response to my last text. So what do you guys think. Do you think I over analyzed the situation that night. Because when the guy came up to us. He stood really close to the girl and it seemed like he had his hand on her lower back. So in my mind I somewhat thought they were together. Also he was looking at me all funny like who the hell is this guy. I tried to to talk him for like two minutes but it just seemed really awkward at the time. And plus she didn't introduce him or say anything. She just kinda sat there looking at me. So I just came up with an excuse to get a beer and just left. I might have over analyzed the situation. Well I guess I'll find out if she replies to me or not.
Author fofiffs Posted April 17, 2009 Author Posted April 17, 2009 **ANOTHER UPDATE WITH A TWIST** Well as you all know I met up with this girl last night that I met on tuesday if you have read the previous post. So anyways I thought I'd text her and see what really was up. So this is how the coversation goes... Me: Sorry about last night. I didn't know you were with someone. Her: No im sorry- if I hadn't been so hammered I would have done a better job of introducing you to my friends! But we had been drinking since 6! Me:Oh ok, I thought he was your BF thats why I felt awkward at the time and the alcohol didn't help. You should let me take you out so there's no confusion. And that was it, I'm just waiting on her response to my last text. So what do you guys think. Do you think I over analyzed the situation that night. Because when the guy came up to us. He stood really close to the girl and it seemed like he had his hand on her lower back. So in my mind I somewhat thought they were together. Also he was looking at me all funny like who the hell is this guy. I tried to to talk him for like two minutes but it just seemed really awkward at the time. And plus she didn't introduce him or say anything. She just kinda sat there looking at me. So I just came up with an excuse to get a beer and just left. I might have over analyzed the situation. Well I guess I'll find out if she replies to me or not. anyone have any input on this, or what it really means...
Peter_pan Posted April 17, 2009 Posted April 17, 2009 **ANOTHER UPDATE WITH A TWIST** Well as you all know I met up with this girl last night that I met on tuesday if you have read the previous post. So anyways I thought I'd text her and see what really was up. So this is how the coversation goes... Me: Sorry about last night. I didn't know you were with someone. Her: No im sorry- if I hadn't been so hammered I would have done a better job of introducing you to my friends! But we had been drinking since 6! Me:Oh ok, I thought he was your BF thats why I felt awkward at the time and the alcohol didn't help. You should let me take you out so there's no confusion. And that was it, I'm just waiting on her response to my last text. So what do you guys think. Do you think I over analyzed the situation that night. Because when the guy came up to us. He stood really close to the girl and it seemed like he had his hand on her lower back. So in my mind I somewhat thought they were together. Also he was looking at me all funny like who the hell is this guy. I tried to to talk him for like two minutes but it just seemed really awkward at the time. And plus she didn't introduce him or say anything. She just kinda sat there looking at me. So I just came up with an excuse to get a beer and just left. I might have over analyzed the situation. Well I guess I'll find out if she replies to me or not. seems like you are trying to be her bf, from her point of view i would say. seems like you drew a boundary (good thing, women respect that) and then apologized for her bad actions and kinda let her know she can behave like this and get away with it. mind you she is totally used to getting what she wants if she is hot as you say she is. tbh i wouldnt read to much into it cause we all know we can analyze the **** out of something. but you should give her the impression you want friendship and this will make her wonder, why dont you want to be with her like every other guy. making you different, then you can get her to chase you and then assess if you even like this woman and if you consider she is worth letting into your life.
Author fofiffs Posted April 17, 2009 Author Posted April 17, 2009 seems like you are trying to be her bf, from her point of view i would say. seems like you drew a boundary (good thing, women respect that) and then apologized for her bad actions and kinda let her know she can behave like this and get away with it. mind you she is totally used to getting what she wants if she is hot as you say she is. tbh i wouldnt read to much into it cause we all know we can analyze the **** out of something. but you should give her the impression you want friendship and this will make her wonder, why dont you want to be with her like every other guy. making you different, then you can get her to chase you and then assess if you even like this woman and if you consider she is worth letting into your life. Still haven't heard from her since that last text I sent her. It's all good though. If don't get a response at least I'm putting myself back out there and trying to move on. This is a good practice for me since i've been out of the game for almost 2 years. But if she does eventually respond back i'll keep that thing in mind about the friendship thing.
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