joel Posted April 15, 2009 Posted April 15, 2009 how do you pick up girl/ meet girls in random places-library, london drugs, , grocery store, bookstore without being a stalkerish or a stalker. i mean if you see a good looking girl, and she walking down the aisle you can;t just go up and say hello you have to follow her to her destination-be it magazine section where she is looking and then begin saying hello and talking right. how do you do that without being stalkerish i think today some girl might have reported me to security at the library for being stalkerish. i mean if they do catch me what will happen. i mean i donlt follow them home or anything , just to follow them and see were they are going so i can go and chat and say hello ,make small talk and xchange info for coffee....etc to what point should i stop and what point should i continue. all i do or say to the girls is hello how are you, what you readng and nothing sexual or mean. just friendly chat. and try to get her number or email or i give out mine and ask her to email or call me. i mean you can;t do this when she is just walking in the library you have to wait for her to settle in her destination(the magazine section, the fiction section and she is looking for books) or when there are too many ppl around you want to wait for her to get out of that area and u follow and see where she is going and when there is less ppl there u go and say hello and talk. why-less embrassing. if the sercurity guard catch me doing this like following girls and he report to police can i go to jail. what will happen. so how do you pick up girls in random places without being stalkerish and making the girl feel uncomfortable and the black sercuity guard accused me of stealing stuff in the library -damnnittt. why would i steal library book you dumbo. he said"hey is everything all right, everytime i turn around you turn around" -stupid. i think maybe some girl i chatted up with or eyeing reported me to sercirty and the sercuirty guard was following me and checking me out to see if i am following and talking to these girls
yadungon Posted April 15, 2009 Posted April 15, 2009 "you can;t just go up and say hello" Why not, it seem ok to me. The best thing she can do is said no to you, but maybe you get her #. Use the old trick something like "What a beautiful girl like you walking alone?" Then you 2 can start chatting, of course some girl might tell you to buzz off.
Loxx Posted April 15, 2009 Posted April 15, 2009 Lol.. Leave them alone if they say "Leave me alone creep" "No" means NO! If they ignore you quit following them. Enjoy
engravefeelthevoid Posted April 25, 2009 Posted April 25, 2009 3 seconds rule...act within 3 seeconds to make it look random and safe...she wont sense the neediness....make it look random like hey watsup sorry where is a good place to eat around here ????
endorphins Posted April 28, 2009 Posted April 28, 2009 best just say hello.. i know most girls go all weird, but thats their issue.. your issue is you are a gent, there is nothing stalkerish about showing interest.
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