lazyhappylucky Posted April 15, 2009 Posted April 15, 2009 I'm 18, I've been with my boyfriend since I was 13(he was 16), he's now 21 and we've just grown apart. I still love him though in a weird way, we have a band together and he's my older brother's bestfriend but we just don't communicate. He goes on a lot of trips, for "music" he says, but I'm a little suspicious that he's cheating on me even though he swears he isn't and that he just doesn't have time for me. I think maybe I love him as a brother or a bestfriend, I've known him since I was 11! So here's what I figured, 2 possibilities: 1. I love him as a brother and he loves me romantically but I can't comprehend his love because it's not the way I feel 2. He's just really bored of me(as cruel as it sounds) really, after we had sex the first time, I always felt like he didn't really like me anymore and that was when I was 15...
Mahatma Posted April 15, 2009 Posted April 15, 2009 I'm 18, I've been with my boyfriend since I was 13(he was 16), he's now 21 and we've just grown apart. I still love him though in a weird way, we have a band together and he's my older brother's bestfriend but we just don't communicate. He goes on a lot of trips, for "music" he says, but I'm a little suspicious that he's cheating on me even though he swears he isn't and that he just doesn't have time for me. I think maybe I love him as a brother or a bestfriend, I've known him since I was 11! So here's what I figured, 2 possibilities: 1. I love him as a brother and he loves me romantically but I can't comprehend his love because it's not the way I feel 2. He's just really bored of me(as cruel as it sounds) really, after we had sex the first time, I always felt like he didn't really like me anymore and that was when I was 15... Go with option number 2. Sounds like you both should probably just break up, but remain friends. If you do this, DO NOT allow yourself to be booty-called... as tempted as you may be.
OverThinker Posted April 15, 2009 Posted April 15, 2009 Go with option number 2. Sounds like you both should probably just break up, but remain friends. If you do this, DO NOT allow yourself to be booty-called... as tempted as you may be. I agree 100% If he is a nice guy and you are good friends you will remain so. One of my best friendships is with an Ex. But beware of the male jean and the fact that he may play on your feelings and pull the FWB on you only do that if thats what you want and can doit with out attchment(its harder than it sounds when you care for someone).
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