LostHusband Posted April 15, 2009 Posted April 15, 2009 Wow I don't even know when the last time I posted on here was. It was probably a month or so after my wife moved out of the house. I was pretty regular on here, reading the forums almost everyday really helped me out. I was one of those devastated husbands whose wife one day told me she wasn't happy and was "done". I went through months of feeling awful, depressed, anxious, all that fun stuff. We stayed together for 8 months after she said she was leaving then she finally moved out last June. Here it is almost 10 months after she moved out and life is pretty dang good. The divorce was final on April 3rd, and it was just like blip of a day I didn't even notice. It was just another day, but I did feel a sense of relief that it was finally over. I have moved on - been seeing another gal, someone who I was friends with before I met my ex-wife. Me and this girl had always been pretty good friends but nothing physical ever happened between us. She found me online in December, we hadn't even talked to each other for 5 years, and we started talking/texting and began hanging out and having a lot of fun. After all the years we've known each other as "just friends" we finally ended up crossing into the physical zone - which was GREAT! Right now I don't know where I stand with that relationship, we are still great friends and its not always physical, so it can be a tad confusing. I might be looking for advice on THAT relationship somewhere down the road here! So there's my update if anyone remembers me - I don't need this forum anymore, I might stop by to check up on others from time to time. I will probably end up changing my user name and hanging out in some of the other dating/friendship forums here, but as far as marriage/divorce is concerned - that chapter is over!
Alan430 Posted April 15, 2009 Posted April 15, 2009 Congrats man! I wish i could be where you are at.
PWSX3 Posted April 15, 2009 Posted April 15, 2009 Funny how we all have to go threw the pain & uncertainty but it seems like we all come out the other end better people. Congrats on your journey....
CM2009 Posted April 15, 2009 Posted April 15, 2009 Congrats my wife and I are seperated and looks like we're heading in the divorce rout, but I have hope and prayer. But I'm happy for you
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