Charmaine_Champagne Posted April 15, 2009 Posted April 15, 2009 what do guys miss/remember more?.. their first beautiful girlfriend, soulmate, best friend who spent years with him (though maybe wasn't overly sexual) or some tart that gives them all the sex they want and does anything sexually that they ask, the best sex?
Lizzie60 Posted April 15, 2009 Posted April 15, 2009 what do guys miss/remember more?.. their first beautiful girlfriend, soulmate, best friend who spent years with him (though maybe wasn't overly sexual) or some tart that gives them all the sex they want and does anything sexually that they ask, the best sex? I would say both.. they never forget their first love.. and they never forget their best sex..
Author Charmaine_Champagne Posted April 15, 2009 Author Posted April 15, 2009 i know this is an immature question but the reason i'm asking is because i was with my ex for 6 years, his first love and i feel now he has forgotten me and moved on because he is out having loadsa sex with whores from the internet- btw i don't know that he is, i am guessing, torturing myself i guess.. i mean do afew great shags cancel out years of something special that we had? i miss him and i want him to miss me but i feel he has moved on and i haven't even kissed another man since we broke up 2 months ago
Lizzie60 Posted April 15, 2009 Posted April 15, 2009 i know this is an immature question but the reason i'm asking is because i was with my ex for 6 years, his first love and i feel now he has forgotten me and moved on because he is out having loadsa sex with whores from the internet- btw i don't know that he is, i am guessing, torturing myself i guess.. i mean do afew great shags cancel out years of something special that we had? i miss him and i want him to miss me but i feel he has moved on and i haven't even kissed another man since we broke up 2 months ago Yes... sometimes it does.. Maybe it wasn't as special to him as it was to you... Just move on.. like he has..
GB111 Posted April 15, 2009 Posted April 15, 2009 Perhaps in the short-run, but as time passes, men have a tendency to romanticize. Whether he was crazy about sex with you or not, the 6 years are undeniable. He must have liked something more than sex if he was with you for that long. Let me take a guess. He might be thinking there's someone out there better than you. While there may be, it's rarely so easy as hopping on the Internet and asking out a few women. Sure, it's a possibility, but my guess is he still thinks of you. Ok, having said that, I would not wait around. The unfortunate (or perhaps fortunate) aspect of his foray is that by the time he realizes he really loved you, you will have moved on. Don't stand by and wait for him to change. You'll torture yourself and frankly, not be very appealing if he does change his mind. You simply have to move forward. I don't believe you really want someone who doesn't want you equally anyway. Go out, have fun, NO CONTACT, and the ball will be back in your court. I promise, you won't regret it. G-Man Yes... sometimes it does.. Maybe it wasn't as special to him as it was to you... Just move on.. like he has..
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