allina Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 The airlines make their seats so small that you will be uncomfortable unless you barely weigh 100 poounds (or pay $1000 for first class). Oh please! Not to get of topic here but that's far from true! You can be overweight and still fit in those seats! What's uncomfortable, and unfair is to be sitting in your seat and having a large person's flesh spill in to your seat! And people have every right to say "I do not want to have sex with a fat person, fat is not attractive to me."
BlueEyedGirl Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 On that note on my last flight I was seated next an obese women (or very overweight). She could not fit in her seat properly and her flesh was spilling out so I had to be touching her constantly and squash myself into my seat. She was also sweating profusely and smelled She kept ordering hot chips and dipping them in sour cream even though her every movement was squashing me further. This has possibly put me off hot chips forever.
amymarieca Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 Wow, I can't even believe this post is still open. I really dislike when people say things like this and get away with it. Looks like prejudiced people are still socially accepted. I must say though, I don't know what society you people live in, but I am overweight and I have no trouble getting good looking guys. I get asked out a lot and I don't have to throw myself at men or act desperate. You don't have to be overweight to act desperate by the way- skinny girls do it too. The guy I am dating right now is a very good looking, well built guy who works for the police. I guess by your standards he should not be attracted to me. Maybe the difference is that my standards include not dating moronic idiots who see nothing but peoples' weight. Ya, that's it.
allina Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 Wow, I can't even believe this post is still open. I really dislike when people say things like this and get away with it. Looks like prejudiced people are still socially accepted. I must say though, I don't know what society you people live in, but I am overweight and I have no trouble getting good looking guys. I get asked out a lot and I don't have to throw myself at men or act desperate. You don't have to be overweight to act desperate by the way- skinny girls do it too. The guy I am dating right now is a very good looking, well built guy who works for the police. I guess by your standards he should not be attracted to me. Maybe the difference is that my standards include not dating moronic idiots who see nothing but peoples' weight. Ya, that's it. So people are not allowed to think that overweight bodies are unattractive?
mr.dream merchant Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 I think she's upset with the terminology he used. Calling overweight people fat is kind of offensive.
amymarieca Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 So people are not allowed to think that overweight bodies are unattractive? They are, but they are not allowed to make comments like "Don't walk around with cake" or "Take the bacon out of your pocket." That is just rude. I wonder what people would think if I started making comments and rude jokes about peoples' race or gender. I'm sure that wouldn't go over so well, so why do fat comments?
mr.dream merchant Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 They are, but they are not allowed to make comments like "Don't walk around with cake" or "Take the bacon out of your pocket." That is just rude. I wonder what people would think if I started making comments and rude jokes about peoples' race or gender. I'm sure that wouldn't go over so well, so why do fat comments? You can't change your race, and for most people, your gender. You can do something about being overweight.
allina Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 I think she's upset with the terminology he used. Calling overweight people fat is kind of offensive. Fat isn't a derogatory slur, it's a physical description meaning someone has a lot of stored body fat, no biggie. if I started making comments and rude jokes about peoples' race or gender. I'm sure that wouldn't go over so well, so why do fat comments? Happens all the time. Plus, no one saying that fat people are worth less or shouldn't have equal rights and opportunities.
allina Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 I want to f*ck you in your vegetarian a** You clearly missed all those posts in the Sex forum about how I'll do anything but the butt
amymarieca Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 You can't change your race, and for most people, your gender. You can do something about being overweight. It doesn't matter if you can change it or not. People don't deserve to have derogatory comments made towards them. That's common sense.
johan Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 You clearly missed all those posts in the Sex forum about how I'll do anything but the butt That's why he wants it. It's pristine.
Lizzie60 Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 Stop walking around with cake. OMG.. I almost spit my tea in my screen..
Lizzie60 Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 I'm short-ish (5'7") and skinny. I consider myself a good-looking guy, but I always seem to meet overweight women, who inevitably develop a crush on me over time. They're always cool people. But I feel bad, because I'm interesting in dating. I do not want to be friends with women; I want to flirt, f*ck, etc. How can I let the big girls know I'm not into 'em? Better yet, how can I stop meeting these fat girls? You probably hang out where the overweight people hangs out.. (MacDonald's, Harvey's, KFC... etc..) hang out where the skinny people hangs out.. (gym, jogging trails..) I swear.. you will not find any fat people there..
Author kizik Posted April 16, 2009 Author Posted April 16, 2009 I just want to be clear - this thread was not meant to be derogatory towards overweight people. The purpose was to figure out WHY, exactly, "fat girls like me." So let's not get all bent out of shape. Let's also stop advising me to "take the bacon out of my pocket." Everyone who's overweight wishes they weren't, so no need to add salt to the wound.
quankanne Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 The guy I am dating right now is a very good looking, well built guy who works for the police. I guess by your standards he should not be attracted to me. Maybe the difference is that my standards include not dating moronic idiots who see nothing but peoples' weight. Ya, that's it. LOL ... great reply, kiddo. not sure what the big deal is. People look like who they are. No one wants to be unhealthy, much less fat when there so much bias against being heavy ... by any amount. Even 15 pounds! to the poster who wants to know how married men can still get it up? They do. Get over yourself. Not everyone has bought into the hype that only anorectic women are worthy of sex. Frankly, that's just creepy to me as the idea of sex with a heavy person might be to another. I forked a skinny guy once. Bad experience. I could actually feel his hipbones knocking into mine, and that's when I was merely just "curvy"
Sibyl Vane Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 I want to f*ck you in your vegetarian a** Would you even know how to do it anymore?
johan Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 Would you even know how to do it anymore? He could "bone up" on his skills with some kind of livestock. They are mostly vegetarians.
Sibyl Vane Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 Fatism is shameful. Shaaaammmme! That isn't very nice. I'd expect more understanding from someone that is, you know, green.
lord alfred douglas Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 Would you even know how to do it anymore? Maybe not but you dont remember what it felt like my cyber-daughter
39388 Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 Wow, I can't even believe this post is still open. I really dislike when people say things like this and get away with it. Looks like prejudiced people are still socially accepted. I must say though, I don't know what society you people live in, but I am overweight and I have no trouble getting good looking guys. I get asked out a lot and I don't have to throw myself at men or act desperate. You don't have to be overweight to act desperate by the way- skinny girls do it too. The guy I am dating right now is a very good looking, well built guy who works for the police. I guess by your standards he should not be attracted to me. Maybe the difference is that my standards include not dating moronic idiots who see nothing but peoples' weight. Ya, that's it. Excellent post Sadly, looking at numerous posts, more people think it is bad to be overweight than prejudiced. Of course there are overweight people who are terrible to be around. There are also thin people who are terrible to be around. It has nothing to do with weight.
39388 Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 And people have every right to say "I do not want to have sex with a fat person, fat is not attractive to me." They do, but people have just as much right to say the same about thin people or any other type of person.
BlueEyedGirl Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 I am not talking about 20lbs overweight, but more than that. I mean can you truly be happy with looking at yourself in the mirror?
39388 Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 You can't change your race, and for most people, your gender. You can do something about being overweight. You are right, but if it was so easy to lose weight, most people would have done it by now. I can tell you as a male, it is hard. They say it is often even harder for females.
quankanne Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 can you truly be happy with looking at yourself in the mirror? and only considering your physicality? Of course not. No one is. Fortunately, we're deeper than that ... and when we understand (and accept) that time and gravity aren't going to preserve what was once perfect, we learn to live with our shortcomings. Otherwise we make ourselves truly miserable over something that cannot be controlled (as in the time and gravity thing).
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