clare.harry Posted April 14, 2009 Posted April 14, 2009 I split with my boyfriend of 2yrs nearly 3 months ago, he said he didnt think he could make me happy anymore(in other words he wasnt happy anymore) Ever since ive been trying to do all the typical things they tell you to to help yourself move on. Ive lost 3 stone, changed my hair, thrown myself into my uni work spent loads of time with family and friends and also made new friends along the way. My ex and i had minimal contact at first he text me on my birthday and valentines day but that was ab out it and i was the same. Over the last month or so its been pretty regular. Hes very honest?? in the texts saying he misses me, hes happy that i 'seem' so happy, he says he doesnt want to see me or be my mate because he will want to get back with me if he sees me, he said he hasnt and wont be with anyone else for a very long time because all he thinks about is me and he wants me to know how much he still cares. Sunday night was the first time we saw eachother since we split, it was in a nightclub and he was very funny with me i was really friendly and chatty and he was quite rude really. Then a bloke came up to me and said how pretty i was and could he have my number. My ex went mental and stormed off. I had a text off him saying he couldnt handle it and was so jealous. I told him it was his choice to finish things and ive not heard off him since. Hes never once said he wants to get back together am i reading to much into everything to think he does?Or does he just not know what he wants.
bluechocolate Posted April 14, 2009 Posted April 14, 2009 Or does he just not know what he wants. Who cares what he wants ? What do you want ?
Author clare.harry Posted April 14, 2009 Author Posted April 14, 2009 I want to be with him and if i cant be with him i want to stop feeling like this its been 3 months and its still all i think about no matter how much nc i have or how much i keep myself busy.x.x.x
bluechocolate Posted April 14, 2009 Posted April 14, 2009 I want to be with him... If he knows that & doesn't want to get back with you then he needs to leave you alone - no messages, no cards, in other words - no contact. if i cant be with him i want to stop feeling like this its been 3 months You were together for 2 years so I think it's pretty normal for most people to still be feeling like this after only 3 months which is why you two cannot be friends right now. You will stop feeling like this ... in time, but he has to stop messing with you before that can happen.
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