kaisergal Posted April 14, 2009 Posted April 14, 2009 Hi just an opinon really! Im 25 and quite inexperienced in dating and sex would that be an issue to guys
MeaganRaye Posted April 14, 2009 Posted April 14, 2009 Hi just an opinon really! Im 25 and quite inexperienced in dating and sex would that be an issue to guys good question. It seems that guys tend to notice the more flitacious and "easy" girls than the ones who don't appear to open their legs to every man
refurb Posted April 14, 2009 Posted April 14, 2009 The answer is.... it depends. Some guys want girls with experience, other guys are looking for girls without a lot of experience. The best suggestion I can give is be up front about it. If, after a few dates, you think things will get more serious, let him know what's up. That way there won't be any surprises. RF
MeaganRaye Posted April 14, 2009 Posted April 14, 2009 The answer is.... it depends. Some guys want girls with experience, other guys are looking for girls without a lot of experience. The best suggestion I can give is be up front about it. If, after a few dates, you think things will get more serious, let him know what's up. That way there won't be any surprises. RF It would be nice if YOU, would give your own opinion about whether or not you would want a girl with experience.
zhsoj Posted April 14, 2009 Posted April 14, 2009 Mmm, the lack of experience wouldn't bother me, but then I'm in the same boat. I took the advice recently of not telling this girl I was seeing (for 3 months) that I don't know what the hell I'm doing. I'm not sure if that's why nothing developed, or what... While I'm fine with that I don't know if it's because I was supposed to initiate or if there is a lack of interest. I wrote that out simply because I would not suggest following the advice of keeping it to yourself indefinatly. It may be a bit embarasing (is for me atleast), but at the very least it doesn't leave lots of questions...
alphamale Posted April 14, 2009 Posted April 14, 2009 Im 25 and quite inexperienced in dating and sex would that be an issue to guys no, not at all
fishtaco Posted April 14, 2009 Posted April 14, 2009 Sex is no big deal. Even if you don't know what you're doing it could be fun as long as you're enthusiastic and willing to learn. And plus it's not rocket science, it's really not that difficult to learn. However for dating, personally I find it easier to date someone that's experienced. Inexperienced women tend to over-invest, base their expectation on fiction, and sometimes send the wrong message because they panic or whatever.
Sephirothh Posted April 14, 2009 Posted April 14, 2009 yes it is a pretty big deal to certain guys, perhaps those are the type of guys you aren't looking for though. The red flag to me here is, your 25 now why is it that you haven't had much experience in sex or dating??? can you not hold relationship? were you afraid of guys your whole life? Do you have problems trusting people? or were you a girl who cared more about her "career" her whole life and now is ready for a committed relationship.
You'reasian Posted April 14, 2009 Posted April 14, 2009 Hi just an opinon really! Im 25 and quite inexperienced in dating and sex would that be an issue to guys No. If my gf was inexperienced, I would help her get some and that would be alot of fun
BCCA Posted April 14, 2009 Posted April 14, 2009 Very broad question. Being inexperienced and unwilling are not the same thing, so its very dependent on the guy and his expectations. While most of us would like to have someone with a little experience, I think everyone is willing to teach if the person is willing. What most guys dont want is a 25 year old girl who wants to watch Hannah Montana, and whose idea of a fun Friday night involves eating ice cream and watching LOST on DVD. Or a girl that thinks that waiting for months to have sex is going to work, or isnt social, doesnt go out, cant hold an adult conversation, etc... I think the lack of experience is irrelevant, as long as youre willing to try new things and have an adult relationship. If youre looking for someone to hold your hand on the couch for two months before trying to kiss you, then youre probably going to be dissapointed. flitacious and "easy" girls than the ones who don't appear to open their legs to every man Flirtacious and easy arent the same thing. There are plenty of flirty girls that dont screw anyone they come across. Also, would you rather have a flirtacious girl who seemed fun, or one that wears sweaters, no makeup, and stares at her shoes without saying a word the whole night?
Charles1978 Posted April 14, 2009 Posted April 14, 2009 Nah, I'd have no problem with it. But I wouldn't want to have to initiate everything... that would get old.
Author kaisergal Posted April 15, 2009 Author Posted April 15, 2009 i was very shy but now im just ready and am not worried bout the sex just telling the person
MeaganRaye Posted April 15, 2009 Posted April 15, 2009 yes it is a pretty big deal to certain guys, perhaps those are the type of guys you aren't looking for though. The red flag to me here is, your 25 now why is it that you haven't had much experience in sex or dating??? can you not hold relationship? were you afraid of guys your whole life? Do you have problems trusting people? or were you a girl who cared more about her "career" her whole life and now is ready for a committed relationship. so by 25 if you haven't had a lot of experience with sex and dating something is wrong with you? why so judgemental?
You'reasian Posted April 15, 2009 Posted April 15, 2009 i was very shy but now im just ready and am not worried bout the sex just telling the person You could tell your guy that you need him to teach you - that could be a turn on.
refurb Posted April 15, 2009 Posted April 15, 2009 It would be nice if YOU, would give your own opinion about whether or not you would want a girl with experience. Like most things I would prefer the middle ground. A girl who isn't a virgin, but doesn't sleep around. Someone who has sex only when in serious relationships and doesn't treat it casually (mainly because that's the way I am). A girl who has little experience is somewhat of an unknown. She'd likely be shy about sex but it would take time for her to find out what she likes and doesn't like. It's a bit of an unknown. As to chicks who sleep around, no explanation needed. RF
Author kaisergal Posted April 17, 2009 Author Posted April 17, 2009 thats the thing i want to experience it and i know it sounds weird but i do feel my sex drive is probs quite high as im an energetic person and am thinking bout it lots
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