enchanted771 Posted April 14, 2009 Posted April 14, 2009 I know, this seems like the million dollar question here, but some tips. I go out drinking (not every day or weekend, but i do go out) this guy i am seeing does hang out with his friends at a lounge, restaurant or what have you. If his friends have a birthday or whatever. He doesnt hide any information about his whereabouts. I still feel insecure at times. I know, if he screwed it up with me, he would be a real idiot but still. I know that one night, I went out and told him what I was wearing, etc. He thought I had a hot night planned lol. I was kind of flattered that he was jealous, and we text nonstop until 2:30 AM. So, I know, i cant tell him not to go out when I am doing the same thing. But, just would like some hints how to stay secure and not let my mind wander about if he is flirting or something.
SoulSearch_CO Posted April 15, 2009 Posted April 15, 2009 You have to learn to be secure with yourself, first. Confident in yourself. Secure in the fact that he is committed to YOU. I trust my BF. He could go to the hottest club in some big city with the hottest women and they could be hanging all over him and flirting with him. I wouldn't be worried. I know he's committed to ME. So I guess you have to ask yourself - what is it that you're questioning in your relationship that would make you question your BF when he goes out? Also - I think it was a little petty of you to be telling him how hot you're looking - like you were trying to make him jealous. Why would you do that?
Mahatma Posted April 15, 2009 Posted April 15, 2009 remind yourself that you would be perfectly fine without him.
JP1409 Posted April 16, 2009 Posted April 16, 2009 Plan a romantic day trip for just the two of you. If it goes well, it will strengthen your relationship and also confirm in both of your minds that you really do want each other.
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