esther0123 Posted April 13, 2009 Posted April 13, 2009 It was REALLY random and out of nowhere.. so I don't know what this all means. My ex and I broke up, like the title says, 8 months ago.. well, rather, he pulled a disappearing act on me after 5 months of dating. Mind you, sure it was rude and hurtful, but I didn't think it was something to feel sorry about for that long, provided that we were not very serious about each other (or I thought that was the gist of our fling... maybe it was just me??) When I sensed that he was avoiding me (which didn't take that long because intuitively I was expecting something like this to happen..), I ended it very clean and nice, sending him an email saying that it was nice knowing him and all and wish him the best. And I left it at that; I never once tried to contact him, I purposely avoided places that he goes to - so it was a clean break. But now that I'm not thinking about him anymore, all of a sudden he sends me an email basically saying that he's "sorry"..... I found this quite pointless (and it is pointless no doubt), and I couldnt understand the reason why he was doing this. He says he's not trying to get back together or anything, just simply apologizing... which again, POINTLESS. Plus, I didn't think he cared all that much about me or us back then, so why bother saying sorry to me at all, especially after so long? And if this is for political correctness or to make himself feel better, urgh, how selfish and annoying! I dont even know. Does this mean he actually cared and genuinely liked me back then (something that I couldn't pick up on apparently..)? Does this mean he misses me (surprising...!)? Odear god, do you think he's gonna try some kind of friendship/relationship with me of some sort?! Jesus, it was a RANDOM email.
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