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I know it looks long but PLEASE someone help me :)

 

Around December a guy at work started talking to me. he started off with making fun of me for my hair (I dyed it about three different times in a weeks span..) and then for a few months after that it was just random comments here and there.

 

around March I started noticing that when I got up around the lounge (we work at a school) he would be watching me. when I talked to my friends, he'd be watching me. eating his lunch and talkin to his friends, but his eye was always on me. then the little remarks started coming. the microwave wasn't workin one day and he said 'oh its mary's fault' joking around.

 

he knew my name without me ever telling him!

 

one day I was in the room with my kid alone, he came in and looked around the room... then asked us if we wanted music put on. I said no thanks and he said ok... then kinda stood there... then left the room. it was the most random weirdest thing

 

 

so lately I've started talking more with him. one day I Was leaving work and he was playing in the gym with his friend. and he asked me to play with them... I tried one shot (it was hockey) and left

 

then the next day he asked me to play again and he has been askin for awhile our schedules just dont meet up at the end of the day

 

 

and the other day, he sent one of his students in to say hi to me and introduce himself. (his student is partially deaf, and I heard him in the hallway teaching the kid how to say my name) I thought that was really sweet

 

ok so now on to the big night...

 

after becoming facebook friends we chatted back and forth and I mentioned 'hey are you going to the school bar outting thurs. because my friend and I were thinkin of going' he said he had aa game to go to that day, but he'd go after the game.

 

so my friend and I went... it was all older staff crowd. and the guy showed up an hour into it. and he chatted for a bit with the staff he knew and said hi to me. but then I invited him to sit with my friend and I

 

we talked the whole nite and I asked him for his number... and we exchanged numbers.

 

on my way home I texted him and I didnt get a response so I didnt think anything of it.

 

but then the next day I wrote him a sorry if I was a drunk message on facebook, and he said it was ok nothing he couldn't handle. and then he joked 'but you didn't call back... that is like, major points loss' and I looked at my phone, he had called me later the nite after the bar

 

so now I dont know what to think. does it sound like he likes me or is just a big flirt? I dunno what to think! and I'm going crazy

 

thank you if you can help me

Posted

wha? You need to breath... ommmm.. guy likes you.. roll with it like snowman snowball.. keep yer cool! I mean.. it doesn't get anymore straightforward then this..

 

although the late night call.. he was prob. buzzed too and lookin for some lovin'.. nothing you can't handle, right?

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