EmperorR Posted April 13, 2009 Posted April 13, 2009 We share a mutual friend, it's actually one of her best female friends and we still talk, we live in the same city etc and she invited me out just as a friend with some other people. Yet I said no what about my ex I said I don't want to think or feel anyway, yet this person dumped me and trampled on my heart.
Melrapuo Posted April 13, 2009 Posted April 13, 2009 We share a mutual friend, it's actually one of her best female friends and we still talk, we live in the same city etc and she invited me out just as a friend with some other people. Yet I said no what about my ex I said I don't want to think or feel anyway, yet this person dumped me and trampled on my heart. Maybe because you still care for her? Just because you know how you should logically be thinking doesn't mean you'll emotionally feel the same way. Part of you may be like "I don't want her to think I'm holding on to anything, so I'll avoid her friends." With my ex right now (we're in kinda similar situations) I have a tough choice because we all share pretty much the same friends. This means that I'm avoiding all of them just to not be around her. It's an awful position to be in, and a lot of my friends are trying to get me to go out. But I've already spent at least one night stuck at the same party with her, and that was awkward enough. Maybe you're just trying to avoid situations like that, which is absolutely normal. A friend of mine told me that, no matter what other people think, after a break up you need to take as much time as you have to in order to heal. No one else can define that time except you. So take your time on it.
Author EmperorR Posted April 15, 2009 Author Posted April 15, 2009 its weir'd now shes calling me babes and going on camera showing me her new hairstyle. Inviting me out to dinner with her friends and as well giving me her number in case I need anyone to talk to.
BW007 Posted April 15, 2009 Posted April 15, 2009 God I wish for that so much, but we are so freakin OVER. It's sad that I would forgive EVERYTHING if she made a genuine effort.
Peter_pan Posted April 15, 2009 Posted April 15, 2009 emp is this the recent ex or the main ex? sorry its late im tiered shame how your getting messed around like this
Author EmperorR Posted April 15, 2009 Author Posted April 15, 2009 Recent ex, I don't know what her best friend is trying to do, I would never ever mess with any of my ex's friends, because I would not want any of my friends to mess with my exes. But on the other hand why do I care? she trampled my heart and offered me only pathetic friendship:laugh:, i hate being nice.
Peter_pan Posted April 15, 2009 Posted April 15, 2009 Recent ex, I don't know what her best friend is trying to do, I would never ever mess with any of my ex's friends, because I would not want any of my friends to mess with my exes. But on the other hand why do I care? she trampled my heart and offered me only pathetic friendship:laugh:, i hate being nice. haha yeah man, dont care !! your too nice. time to be bad a$$
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