lizamcfc Posted April 13, 2009 Posted April 13, 2009 I went on a first date with this guy last weekend and we really really hit it off, I had so much fun, he made me laugh a lot, and we had a really good good time. He kissed me at the end of the date, and said he hoped to see me again soon. Then 5 minutes after leaving he texted me.... since then we've been pretty much in constant contact, he texts me every day with really cute things, saying he really can't wait to see me again, he wants to hold me close etc etc... so anyway we had our second date the other day, again it went very very well. I had a really lovely time. He asked me to text him when I got home so he knew I'd got home, so I did... he didn't reply for 7 hours... then yesterday morning he text asking if I fancied going out with him because it was sunny and nice and stuff... So I said yes.... then he didn't reply for 3 hours.... He said he'd fallen asleep.... And hinted for me to go and see him, to be honest I was a little annoyed cos I'd got ready and once, then when I didn't receive a response I just put my PJs back on.... so anyway, he then asks if I'd go out with him in the evening... I said yes ok..... then his next message? "I'm not sure if anywhere's going to be open actually..." and I just found it weird, HE asks me to do something with him and then when I say yes he kinda backtracks! So I was like... right ok...... and then he was like, I'm sure you'd rather be watching DVDs anyway, and making out that it was me who didn't want to go out.... So eventually we said, lets just leave it for today. Then he sent one of his usual messages, how he wished we were together.... but since then he's not really text. I sent him a text this morning and he replied but didn't really try to carry on the communication... It just seems strange, after all the constant contact.... Initiated by him I may add, I've text him first on no more than two occasions.... I'm just confused. I think the confusion yesterday has put him off me, thats how I feel... I don't know... Advice please?
pinkberry Posted April 13, 2009 Posted April 13, 2009 I went on a first date with this guy last weekend and we really really hit it off, I had so much fun, he made me laugh a lot, and we had a really good good time. He kissed me at the end of the date, and said he hoped to see me again soon. Then 5 minutes after leaving he texted me.... since then we've been pretty much in constant contact, he texts me every day with really cute things, saying he really can't wait to see me again, he wants to hold me close etc etc... so anyway we had our second date the other day, again it went very very well. I had a really lovely time. He asked me to text him when I got home so he knew I'd got home, so I did... he didn't reply for 7 hours... then yesterday morning he text asking if I fancied going out with him because it was sunny and nice and stuff... So I said yes.... then he didn't reply for 3 hours.... He said he'd fallen asleep.... And hinted for me to go and see him, to be honest I was a little annoyed cos I'd got ready and once, then when I didn't receive a response I just put my PJs back on.... so anyway, he then asks if I'd go out with him in the evening... I said yes ok..... then his next message? "I'm not sure if anywhere's going to be open actually..." and I just found it weird, HE asks me to do something with him and then when I say yes he kinda backtracks! So I was like... right ok...... and then he was like, I'm sure you'd rather be watching DVDs anyway, and making out that it was me who didn't want to go out.... So eventually we said, lets just leave it for today. Then he sent one of his usual messages, how he wished we were together.... but since then he's not really text. I sent him a text this morning and he replied but didn't really try to carry on the communication... It just seems strange, after all the constant contact.... Initiated by him I may add, I've text him first on no more than two occasions.... I'm just confused. I think the confusion yesterday has put him off me, thats how I feel... I don't know... Advice please? Hmmmm. This is definitely strange behaviour. Either he's got some sort of undisclosed health issue, or he's just an idiot who doesn't know what he wants and is jerking you around. Next time he texts and wants to hang out, I would simply make myself unavailable.
dreamergrl Posted April 13, 2009 Posted April 13, 2009 Sounds like game playing to me. That or he's juggling more then one woman at at a time. I'd say screw it if it were me.
single ape Posted April 13, 2009 Posted April 13, 2009 just sounds like a guy.. they are idiots sometimes. You have to realize that a lot of dudes have been shot down so many times that they get this wounded dog approach to life. Going in for the pet, with the tail tucked. If you like him you might have to break him out of that with a "listen, I like you.. so stop being such a wuss.." which is totally no fun to deal with on day 2, so you could also just move on..
loser101 Posted April 13, 2009 Posted April 13, 2009 he sounds young so he may not have much confidence - that could turn out to be a pain. You could just send him a text saying he should step up and quit games. His response to that will decide it for you.
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