annsumm Posted April 13, 2009 Posted April 13, 2009 I got chatting to this guy on line. Saw his pic and he seemed nice enough so accepted a date with him. At first he seemed ok, didn't knock blow my socks off..but ok. Then, he came on really strong, getting all touchy feely in the pub (i felt like he was invading my personal space!). By the end of the date I was happy to get away to be honest. He tried to book the next date before I had got away, saying that he wanted to come and collect me from my house.To protect myself and thinking of my safety, I agreed (could hardly refuse to his face, expecially as I didnt know how he would react!). Anyway, he keeps on texting, calling, mailing trying to confirm our next date. Upto now I have ignored him, not replied at all. I feel a bit ignorant but have no intention of seeing him again. Am I doing the right thing by ignoring his attempt to contact me again or should I react and tell him I am not interested ?? Its just that I hate being ignored and know how it feels!
Treasa Posted April 13, 2009 Posted April 13, 2009 I hope you didn't give him your address. If so, you weren't thinking of your safety. The best thing to do would be to call him and tell him that it was nice meeting him, but that you just don't feel a connection, but wish him the best.
Author annsumm Posted April 13, 2009 Author Posted April 13, 2009 No, I didn't give him my address. He has my mobile number and my email address, thats all.
Sam Spade Posted April 13, 2009 Posted April 13, 2009 No, I didn't give him my address. He has my mobile number and my email address, thats all. Which is enough to find your street address, if he's as pushy as you describe him.
loser101 Posted April 13, 2009 Posted April 13, 2009 Which is enough to find your street address, if he's as pushy as you describe him. How? I think you should bite the bullet and tell him the score. Everyone deserves that much.
KeastoGirl Posted April 13, 2009 Posted April 13, 2009 Definitely tell him before he goes psycho. Thank him for the date, tell him you don't feel the same as he seems to feel, and wish him the best in finding someone who is right for him. Email him if you have to, but best to call him.
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