fofiffs Posted April 13, 2009 Posted April 13, 2009 Well my ex called me today and I answered it which I should have never done. She told me that she just wanted to be friends which I really didn't want to be friends. I guess now I know how she really feels. She tells me also the guy she has been only dating for two weeks after we've been broken up for a month is really amazing and that she spent easter with his family. It really sucks cuz she has a baby that I have taken care or since she was born and now she's found a new daddy for her. To me this really tears me up inside knowing after everything Ive done for her and the baby, she wants to throw it all away for a man shes only been in a relationship with for two weeks. It really hurts so much. But what can I do, it's her choice. But I know someday she'll get her karma for using me like this. After we broke up she treated me like I was nothing and that I never did anything for her. I hate her for calling me and especially myself for answering. I just set myself back to square one. I hope one day when she realizes how much I did for her and love her, if she comes crawling back I know this time for sure I won't want her back. I hate her for every pain she has put upon me. And I hope that one day this guy she's with crushes her whole world as she did to mine. But I know this time I'll be fine since I finally got my closure.
alwayssme Posted April 13, 2009 Posted April 13, 2009 keep ur head up boo..i completely feel u on that one...for how long were u with her??
EmperorR Posted April 13, 2009 Posted April 13, 2009 GO NC and don't look back, trust me once someone finds someone new its done its over, you won't want them back after and there in the honeymoon stage where everything is new and exciting and "good", but with you your not new your not exciting you don't give them butterflies. RUN and don't look back time heals.
Peter_pan Posted April 13, 2009 Posted April 13, 2009 sorry to hear that man, that is HARD go NC and never ever look back. delete her number or change it to do not answer. the right one will find you. and she will never forget what you did for the baby. and feel happy that you are such a great person for getting involved in the first place with the child. that takes some special type of guy
Author fofiffs Posted April 13, 2009 Author Posted April 13, 2009 yeah she really tore me up when she called me to tell me that she is with her new man at his parents house for easter. How can someone be so cruel to say that to someone that they said they loved. But I know one day when she realizes how much I did for her and the baby, I'll be over her by then. Right now I just despise her for everything she put me through. I just don't get how some women can just hook up with someone in less than a month of the break up and fall for them so hard already. But to me I really think its not going to work out for them. They're just going so fast. Its like a drug for her. Right now she's so high on emotions but I know she's gonna come crashing hard. So when the day comes, I'll have no remorse for her as she had no remorse for me
EmperorR Posted April 13, 2009 Posted April 13, 2009 Some people are just cruel like that, trust me I know firsthand don't worry what goes up must come down just let go walk away knowing you did your best and none of it was your fault.
Author fofiffs Posted April 13, 2009 Author Posted April 13, 2009 Some people are just cruel like that, trust me I know firsthand don't worry what goes up must come down just let go walk away knowing you did your best and none of it was your fault. Yeah your right I did everything that I could. But I hope that she pays for how cruel she has been to me. One day she'll get hers. Karma is a b***h!!!
Surfer Dude Posted April 14, 2009 Posted April 14, 2009 She's a cruel person who wants to pick on you now that you are weakest. Arguing with such fools is a waste of time and no contest (they always win), just ignore her attempts at calling you. There's nothing you gain out of this. My ex would also call me just to tell me how perfect her new boyfriends are, wouldn't leave me alone until I told her to get the fck out of my life, called her names and said that I never wanted to hear from her again. Worked well, she hasn't really been trying to contact me since, apart for a few incidents. Dude, forget your ex, go out and have fun with girls. That's the best cure for heartbreak.
Author fofiffs Posted April 14, 2009 Author Posted April 14, 2009 She's a cruel person who wants to pick on you now that you are weakest. Arguing with such fools is a waste of time and no contest (they always win), just ignore her attempts at calling you. There's nothing you gain out of this. My ex would also call me just to tell me how perfect her new boyfriends are, wouldn't leave me alone until I told her to get the fck out of my life, called her names and said that I never wanted to hear from her again. Worked well, she hasn't really been trying to contact me since, apart for a few incidents. Dude, forget your ex, go out and have fun with girls. That's the best cure for heartbreak. She just text me saying " I'll still take you as a friend" this time I just completely ignored it and went along my business. I ain't letting her do this to me anymore. I'm trying to take my life and dignity back. She could screw herself. Cuz I know she'll get her karma when she ain't looking.I know that the guy she's with probably just wants to hit it. And plus she's a user anyway. Once I helped her get back up on her feet thats when she left. I really don't need anyone like that. I know I deserve better. It still hurts but i'm just sick and tired of her crap and how cruel she is. I took care of her baby since she was born and she can't even appreciate that. I hope this guy she's with treat her like crap. She met this dude on the internet so she really doesn't even know the bad side to him yet. She'll get hers.
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