JasonQ Posted October 16, 2003 Posted October 16, 2003 I met this chick at a football game (however, i wouldnt really call it a "meeting"). She seems nice, from what I could gather. Anyways, I cant get myself to talk to her. Before I can go any further, I must be able to talk to her right? Well I just cant seem to do it. Well, I did get to talk to her for a short bit, but it was more of HER talking to ME. She was also talking to friends as well. during one of her conversations, she mentioned that she liked 80's music, Led Zeppelin and all of that. Zeppelin happens to be my favorite band, along with styx and others. I screwed up right then , when i didnt talk to her about music i think. Because how often do you find a girl that likes anything but ©rap. Anyways, I walked away disappointed because I am a fool who cant talk to chicks for some reason. I have a feeling I should try my hardest not to pass this one up. Now here is the thing, she will be at the game next friday, and I want to try and talk to her, because this will be my last chance in all reality. HOW DO I TALK TO HER? Some of the things i like to talk about is enough to scare a girl. trust me. I mean would it be stupid if i went back up to her and said "So, you like zeppelin? What is your favorite song?" and go from there or what? Is there a foolproof way to talk to her, or am I going to prove myself a fool?
VASH THE STAMPEDE Posted October 16, 2003 Posted October 16, 2003 Well,theres is no foolproof way of doing what your going to do. basically be your self first and look deep inside to get courage. Because opportunities come only a few times in your situation.
moimeme Posted October 16, 2003 Posted October 16, 2003 The easiest way to talk to anyone is to ask them questions. If they don't ask you a question back, ask another question based on their last answer. So, when she said she liked Led Zeppelin, you could have asked if she had a big collection of the music, if she ever went to a concert, etc. From there, you'd come up with other questions. Eventually, you both get to the point where you exchange anecdotes, which will lead to more questions, etc. At the game you can ask her what she thinks of the game, if she has a favourite player, etc.
JasonQ Posted October 18, 2003 Posted October 18, 2003 welp... i blew it... i had every chance in the world to talk to her, and i did, a bit, but i would hardly call it a conversation.... what i am saying is that i am in the same place as i was when i wrote this thread... i dont know what to do,... i can talk to anyone but her... ----- people just tell me to ask her out... is that a problem without talking first? I mean could i ask her what she is doing after the game and go from there? or should i at least talk to her... because if so, then i may as well just go ahead and ask her out, because it would be better to get a "no" if i flat out ask her, rather than not talk and get nowhere
vixen Posted October 18, 2003 Posted October 18, 2003 realy just ask questions. Ask her about her family. Like, Got any brothers or sisters? Ask her about pets, ask her where did she grow up. Ask her odd questions that might spark her interest, like what's your favorite book, or movie, or car, or actor/actress. What are her hobbies, ask her stuff about her that you want to know, when the ball starts to roll you should do fine. Vixen
VASH THE STAMPEDE Posted October 19, 2003 Posted October 19, 2003 Do you like her alot????? Do you want to see her with another guy????? You'd better get the dice rolling bro there's only a limited time before shes feels uncofortable. Be who you are let the emotions take you there if she declines ,break her legs. JUST KIDDING But for real, let her know how you feel about her. Before is too late.
JasonQ Posted October 28, 2003 Posted October 28, 2003 Kinda a follow-up/new question here... I finally talked to her, twice actually (heh). Anyways, I talked to her, I seen her at walmart, and we stopped and talked for a few minutes, then we had to move on. Then the next day, I talked to her a little before the game. What I did notice however, was that she noticed me, (she said hi to me first) and we went from there. I dont know if that means anything, or am I just hoping. Anyways, I basically have one chance to get anything done coming up this saturday. There is a game. I will talk to her hopefully. A buddy of mine tells, me to be confident in myself, and basically go up to her and talk to her, and talk enough to ask her out. What are some suggestions to asking her out. Is his advice good advice? Do I just like, flat out ask her if she wanna go eat, or see a movie or something? And what if she says NO, how would she say no. And how should I react to it. any hints?
Recommended Posts