gatorfanchomp Posted April 13, 2009 Posted April 13, 2009 BUT i have this huge crush on this girl... ok thats not the bad part. the bad part is that she has a boy friend. i know not to steal her from him but im in a hard spot here. Help? she gave me her number and all that crap.
Quos Posted April 13, 2009 Posted April 13, 2009 Let's start with the obvious questions... WHy did she give you her number if she has a boyfriend? What makes you so sure you can "steal her from him"? Most people can't be stolen from their relationships unless they want to be...
single ape Posted April 13, 2009 Posted April 13, 2009 that is true.. unless hes a friend or you're friendly with him, it's not your problem. If not you, someone else. What you should be more worried about is that you're chasing a girl that's not afraid to flirt in a relationship.. thats trouble..
Author gatorfanchomp Posted April 13, 2009 Author Posted April 13, 2009 Let's start with the obvious questions... WHy did she give you her number if she has a boyfriend? What makes you so sure you can "steal her from him"? Most people can't be stolen from their relationships unless they want to be... i said i know not to steal.
Author gatorfanchomp Posted April 13, 2009 Author Posted April 13, 2009 let me set the scene a little. so i was helping a neighbor move and i heard a lot about the girl. so i met her while moving and for eh maybe 2 hours i was under the impression she was single. but then her boy friend showed up. so i spent 2 hours talking and flirting (well what i thought was flirting)
single ape Posted April 13, 2009 Posted April 13, 2009 again.. not your problem.. she's looking to flirt.. which either means shes a flirter, a cheater, or at the end of a relationship.. your only worry is which ones of those you're cool with and not cool with..
SoulSearch_CO Posted April 13, 2009 Posted April 13, 2009 let me set the scene a little. so i was helping a neighbor move and i heard a lot about the girl. so i met her while moving and for eh maybe 2 hours i was under the impression she was single. but then her boy friend showed up. so i spent 2 hours talking and flirting (well what i thought was flirting) OK, so you still haven't been entirely clear why she gave her number. HOW did she give it? Did it seem flirty when she gave it to you? WHEN did she give it? Was it before or after her BF showed up? Did she give you her number in front of him? Did she give you a reason for giving you the number?
confused_2008 Posted April 13, 2009 Posted April 13, 2009 In these situations, it's always an ego boost to think "Wow. I must be something if she's willing to leave her boyfriend for me." At the same time, you have to realize she could very well do the same thing to you down the line.
Author gatorfanchomp Posted April 13, 2009 Author Posted April 13, 2009 OK, so you still haven't been entirely clear why she gave her number. HOW did she give it? Did it seem flirty when she gave it to you? WHEN did she give it? Was it before or after her BF showed up? Did she give you her number in front of him? Did she give you a reason for giving you the number? IDK why she gave me the number. it happened at the very end of the day. We were getting ready to leave and we were at my car getting the last boxes and she said lets exchange numbers.
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