Tinkerbelll Posted April 12, 2009 Posted April 12, 2009 Hi everybody, hope you remember me Ok, so..I received from him the usual crap text HAPPY EASTER, KISS. I won't go back to square one, just ignored it. So it's day 16 NC today! Stay strong and Happy Easter all of you-
Darkness7 Posted April 12, 2009 Posted April 12, 2009 Hi everybody, hope you remember me Ok, so..I received from him the usual crap text HAPPY EASTER, KISS. I won't go back to square one, just ignored it. So it's day 16 NC today! Stay strong and Happy Easter all of you- Good for you, Tinkerbell! 4 weeks of NC for me tomorrow. Happy Easter too!
EmperorR Posted April 12, 2009 Posted April 12, 2009 My ex sent me one as well, i replied just wishing her the same
peteyj Posted April 13, 2009 Posted April 13, 2009 Hey my ex sent a 'happy anniversary' text and voice mail a couple weeks back and some of my family members and friends who I don't talk to often contacted me about that as well. I'm at the point where it's no big deal and I moved on but I thought it was odd my ex sent that message considering she was the one who cheated, left for another guy, then moved out of state and told me "she wasn't in love with me anymore'. Weird really but as I said, i talked to her and to my family and friends. It doesn't bother me. The only thing that sucks for me now is I have no desire to date or get close to anybody. Or maybe I just have no desire for somebody to get to know me really well.
Author Tinkerbelll Posted April 13, 2009 Author Posted April 13, 2009 Yeah..I could have replied something like "you too", but that's what I did on Christmas and in that occasion I hoped he would eventually call me, tell me he missed me etc..which of course didn't happen. I just wanted to deliver a clear message: I am out of your life. I am not your friend. I am not playing games anymore. Leave me alone. I am not intereted in what you could think about my behaviour. FORGET ABOUT ME. I am trying to do the same at the end.
gavinus Posted April 14, 2009 Posted April 14, 2009 good for you tinkerbell! keep being strong, 5 weeks NC from me too
Author Tinkerbelll Posted April 14, 2009 Author Posted April 14, 2009 Yeah..I definetely feel better for not breaking NC If he would ever want to get back with me it will take a lot more than a stupid text!!!
SpanksTheMonkey Posted April 14, 2009 Posted April 14, 2009 Ya ever wonder if your ex is also on here patting you on the back for not contacting them and boasting about how long its been for them? lol.. sorry I know wrong thing to say at the wrong time I have a knack for that.. sorry continue...
Author Tinkerbelll Posted April 14, 2009 Author Posted April 14, 2009 Of course he's not..But it's ok, it's about life at the end. I am not ashamed of my feelings towards him..For me it's important to state that at the end I chose to go on with my life. And it is empowering ignore his stupid texts: they are a way to try to establish contact with me again. But I am not here from him anymore. Hope I answered your question.
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