casie_0021 Posted April 12, 2009 Posted April 12, 2009 me and my boyfriend happens to be close family friends. He help his family business and still on search for job in a diff. company in line with his profession and i work in an established company. Apparently, both of our parents have no comments about our relationship. Our relationship were doing good for the first few months. Lately ,he did'nt communicate for a week and its unusual for him. Knowing him, he always find ways to communicate or find time to see each other. Out of the blue, he called and talk to me about why he's acting strange lately. He said he's feelings for me never change and that he still love me but he's confused of what may happen in the future that might hurt me and he's afraid that the friendship of our parents may be affected. He also opened up that he's ashame of my parents coz he do'nt have a job. ( i guess its his pride..)... He ask for a space and distance to think things over and remain as friends for the meantime where in there would be no obligations and commitments and start again until he is ready. Part of me understands him and will wait for him 'til his ready and part of me was hurt why things happen this way. Any advise ? Would i wait for him once he is ready?
Peaceandlove Posted April 12, 2009 Posted April 12, 2009 I don't think it's fair that you should wait for him- why should you waste your time waiting for anyone..just move on with your life and eventually start seeing other people I would definitely not sit around and wait until someone makes up his mind about a prospective future together. I think that this would even make him respect you even less
Author casie_0021 Posted April 13, 2009 Author Posted April 13, 2009 thanks for the advise. ya right i have to move on and i know its not that easy....yet, i'm still bothered, confused, and afraid..... and im tired/afraid to fall in love again and will be hurt in the long run.
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