Does she like me?

[lollerskates]

hello everyone. i need assistance in finding out if this girl likes me. (SORRY THIS IS SO LONG D:)

 

first of all, i am a shy guy, she is a quiet girl, and when she does talk its in a very quiet voice. last time i talked to her at all was in october or november, so the things i am going to say seem weird to me.

 

the other day she was walking with two friends, but they went to play football. as if knowing i was behind her, (we have the same P.E class, we had to walk around at the time) she asked me to walk with her. Since she walks really slow, i slowed down. the first 2 minutes were ok, since we were talking. we talked about how her legs hurt from running and some other thing, but she was talking so quietly i couldnt hear her. the next lap, though, seemed like an hour long, since we didnt really talk.when we were about to start our 3rd lap, she stayed behind talking to her friend, so i kept walking. (we have to walk by the way, or else we get points taken off our grade). so anyways after a while she caught up and we started our slow slow walk. i said welcome back, but it was as if she didnt hear me or ignored me, and started walking, again with no talking, and eventually P.E ended.

 

a few days later, in P.E, i was walking when we were supposed to run a lap, and she was also walking behind me. She started to jog, and said to me with what i saw to be a grin, to start running. so i started to jog a little then finished the lap and started walking with my friend, since she was far up. since we were walking faster than her we caught up quickly, just was my friend was saying how he didnt believe who my P.E teacher was. i took this chance to ask her to tell him who my teacher was, but i started out by pretending not knowing her name(bad move i know). well i got her attention and asked her my question, though i didnt expect her to incorretly, since we have the same teacher, and i sit about two rows next to her. maybe this teams that she has no interest in me, i dont know, but i would know who is in my class, even if im not interested in them. then, with another grin told me that she has a name, and told me her name.

 

sometimes when i glance over at her, I THINK she is looking at me and then looks down, but this might just be that she was looking in my area and didnt realize she was looking at me. also, she did go up to another guy while we were walking on another day and start talking to him, and i know that he wasnt really her friend because then she would be walking with him instead of walking alone all the time.all of this could be that she just wants a friend while walking, but im trying to see if its soething more. ill post more if something else comes to mind.

 

thanks in advance

[yadungon]

"she asked me to walk with her"

how she ask you, what exactly did she said?

 

when she talks to her friends does she speak in low volume too?

 

i think the problem start at 2nd lap when you 2 didnt talk. you a man try to start a topic with her.

 

"she stayed behind talking to her friend"

she slow down or did you speed up?

 

"(we have to walk by the way, or else we get points taken off our grade)"

what more important your grade or girl you like?

me the girl, why didnt you join the conversation with her friends. i think you should join the talk.

 

"welcome back"

what the hell!! what did you expect her to answer you. try to imagine you in her position how would you respond to it.

 

good news is she caught up and walk with you, she might have feeling for you. she dont want you to be alone so she came up. after the welcome thing why didnt you start to talk to her. make a joke or something make her laugh

 

"pretending not knowing her name(bad move i know)"

WOW, she might think you dont care about her. not a big problem as long as you make up for it. try to said "Hello [her name}" then class or hallway even if you have nothing to said to her .well it seem to me that it alway her making the first move.i think it time for you to do it.

how exactly did you ask her try to put it in quote.

 

 

"she did go up to another guy while we were walking on another day"

i think she want to make you jealous. after that time did she talk often to that guy again? if she did you can go up and talk to him too, or you can walk next to the girl even if you dont know who the guy is.

[lollerskates]

1. She said, "You will walk with me" or "Will you walk with me" i couldn't hear her.

 

2.Yes she does. at least when i've heard her.

 

3.She stopped, because her friend was taking track of the laps we do. He said something to her and she pushed him in a playful way, since i saw her smile. Weird coincidence is that i do this a lot to my friends. I was walking at the same speed.

 

4. I kept walking because i thought she didnt want to walk with me anymore.

 

5.I expected her to at least look at me. She just kept looking forward lol.

 

6. I didn't. after she answered my question i was going to ask her, but she said "I have a name by the way." i said "Oh really? What is it??" she said "it's {name}" she was smiling though when she started to speak.

 

7.No, she really never talked to him again, but she does this with, what i've seen, a lot of random people.

[yadungon]

Basely you should had join the chat with her friends. Try if it happen again.

 

"she pushed him in a playful way"

after up she caught to you or talk alittle and came up?

 

"a lot of random people. "

She maybe want to meet new friends and you one of them.

 

I think you should first make friend with her, then start introducing your friends to her after a period of time like 3- 4 days where you consider yourself as friend with her. After that start know her friends.

 

Remember to said "Hello [her name}" to her.

[lollerskates]

1. after we talked a little, she went to push him, then caught up.

 

Well, she does have friends, but both the females and males are in a sport, and she just walks

 

Oh yeah, we are both in high school

[yadungon]

"1. after we talked a little, she went to push him, then caught up."

 

"we" do you mean they?

or she just goes over to him and push him.

If she did that there must be a reason, did that person make something supporting like "you go girl" but mute way or low sound.

[lollerskates]

"We" is me and her.

 

No, he said something like "you better keep walking" so he pushed her

[yadungon]

when he said it in what way like playing or serious.

 

If it playing around i think the girl does like you and that guy know about it.

Do you have feeling for this girl?

[lollerskates]

a little of both? Because we did have to walk, but i dont think he meant anything by it

[yadungon]

Do you have feeling for this girl?

[lollerskates]

umm.. Yes?

[yadungon]

Tomorrow at school and said hi to her and in class try to talk something like your what you like to do, basely just chat with her and ask what she like. See what her reaction.

It important because you find out what thing she like.

 

Reply with result.

[lollerskates]

we are on spring break, i will have to do it on monday